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westhill2006 53M

6/11/2006 2:07 pm

I agree...

P.S. Have you found your soulmate yet ?

bipolybabe 54F

6/11/2006 2:09 pm

I found that I fell "in love" from afar with someone I met here, but what I truly fell for was my own words. I loved expressing myself to him and that he seemed to "get" me.

But, there was not enough basis for attraction face to face.

On the other hand, my current lover read most of my blogs before we met. I felt he knew me pretty well and he still accepted me. I found him interesting, and now we're choosing an unconventional path, which I'm writing about in my blog. We'll see how it goes.

So, I'm not convinced about the "soul mate" thing, but I know we can expand the number and range of people we'd meet through a medium like this one.



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LIBlonde97 40F
1028 posts
6/11/2006 2:14 pm

I disagree.

You can meet your soulmate through this site, because it is an opportunity to meet people just like any other...

But to truly 'know' someone through webcam, emails, letter writing. No. You need to be there. You need to see people in their context, in the middle of messy life with no filters and no preplanned text. I think people need have their actual physical lives meshed in order to know each other.

It is the added element so many people forego...


florallei 99F

6/11/2006 2:15 pm

TY...bipolybabe...I agree with you and what I was trying to convey is also that one can'not disregard this other possibility of correspondence of finding one's needs to be open to all possibilities...I am sure that you found out more about yourself by writing as you said "fell for ...own words"...
Everyone has to keep true to what they think and feel...hope your new lover...will bring you happiness and inner growth...

florallei 99F

6/11/2006 2:17 pm

Hello of yet "NO"...hope you are having a great weekend!


florallei 99F

6/11/2006 6:02 pm

TY... is really nice to hear that everyone has differing opinions and results...yes it is true we need to observe how that person interacts in their every day lives...I suppose I go on the premise and hope that the one I am corresponding with is being truthful and that our communication is open and that the final element of seeing and being with that person can only be solidified by what one has learned thru the they say "the truth is revealed sooner or later"....again TY for your input...

funintheday2006 56M
9659 posts
6/12/2006 6:02 am

Im with Liblonde on this one, the emails/blogs/cyber silliness are all foreplay and extremely pleasant.
Enjoy and love your new friend through the medium with emphasis on friend. If you happily get into the same room away from the keyboard then, and only then, will 'chemstry' kick in for real.
The cyperplay and getting to know beforehand will enhance the chemistry and probably make the physical joining more beautiful but, there will never be a substitute for holding a hand or kissing lips. Never.
I do believe that it is possible, therefore, but tread with caution is the suggestion.

florallei 99F

6/12/2006 8:07 am

....yes of course one needs to meet and be with the person to complete the connection...chemistry is a powerful thing...the smell of the person is an aphrodasiac...
I suppose I was merely suggesting that it is possible to meet that certain special someone thru the intoduction of this does not replace the real person to person meeting....TY Fun...

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
6/12/2006 11:59 am

Finding your soulmate on this site: It's completely possible. I feel the likelihood is the same here as anywhere else in life.

But you can't call it "true" until you meet in real. Walk together, talk together, see into eachother's eyes. Learn eachother's lives. Nomatter how much you "click" online... it's just not real till then.

florallei 99F

6/12/2006 1:25 pm

yes it can be a STEPPING meeting one's soulmate...TY Dsk...appreciate you looking in...

florallei 99F

6/12/2006 9:38 pm

Hello Othello,

I do often think that in this western society the normal way of courtship or dating is fret with pitfalls...for one can easily mislead their date by putting on their best face,best behaviour and they go out on an entertainment journey rather than really getting to know one another...
this medium can cut thru the pretense and social acting and lead to deeper communication as you said "to communicate with...honesty...from the heart without fear of reprisal...
Thank you for sharing your thoughts...Indeed if both sides' intention are true...the real possibility exist...that one can find

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