flirting4fun12 50F
48 posts
1/22/2006 5:22 am

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3/17/2011 9:34 pm


I was talking with a friend the other day and we were taking men and
cumming and I said, you can tell when a man masterbates a lot by how
easy it is for him to cum especially if you are giving him a blow
job....why is that you ask....well I don't mean to brag to much but I
have pretty good oral skills and getting a man off is not that
hard...unless he masterbates a lot.....when a man masterbates a lot he
has his own rythem and it is usually a lot fast pace with a tighter in order for a woman to get a man to cum she would have to
work hard to achive that......I dont know what do you think.......

flirting4fun12 50F
13 posts
1/22/2006 10:25 am

I guess what I mean is that it lessens the sensitivety of a cock and that is why it takes longer. I am saying this mostly from personal experince. when give a man oral pleasure I can usually tell if a guy masterbates a lot or not. Not ever having to ask him or say anything to him at all. I agree a blow job is much better then masterbation and that a man can get off a lot fast with a blow job ( of course depending on the skill level of the person giving the blow job!!

letsdoitnow220 52M

2/20/2006 8:19 am

Sounds like you are just looking for an excuse for your bad blow jobs

flirting4fun12 50F
13 posts
2/20/2006 12:39 pm

oh my dear you could not be more wrong then that....I think it came from sucking the same short cock for 13 years and he was desenitized to my lips and tongue and deep throat....well didnt know I was good at deep thorating with a big cock till after I left him

rm_jim302 56M
1 post
6/2/2006 8:53 pm

I must be the oddity. I have a difficult time cumming while masterbating. It's a little easier for a woman to masterbate me and get me off, but it's still a chore.

There have only been a few women who could get me off with their mouth. But believe me, I treasure those experiences!

GushyVaultTerry 50M

9/2/2006 8:14 pm

    Quoting flirting4fun12:
    oh my dear you could not be more wrong then that....I think it came from sucking the same short cock for 13 years and he was desenitized to my lips and tongue and deep throat....well didnt know I was good at deep thorating with a big cock till after I left him
I'm sorry to hear about the short cock you had for 13 yrs

rm_tnbubba62 54M

10/11/2006 11:00 am

I'd like to volunteer for the cum-speed-measuring test anytime your open for it. We can test lots of other sex fun at the same time! I'm good for multiple times so you can test all you want until YOU'VE had enough.

rm_hook351 45M

10/13/2006 11:12 am

I think a man's cumming is all mental. I can masturbate for 1/2 hour or longer. But when a woman is giving me oral, I try to think about other things, so this heavenly event can continue. If she is bad at it, I can concentrate on the blow job and cum sooner. But, you know, the worst blow job is still awesome.

randy318 55M

11/12/2006 2:46 am

Never thought it was a speed could last an hour more or less depending on the people involved.....getting there is the most fun...foreplay is an art form best practiced......and depends if you are in a 69 situation do you really want to rush it ????

rm_jim34fun 44M

12/2/2006 8:22 am

Think about this, you going to cum faster for an ugly girl or a HOT girl?

The more girl can turn you on, the odds are the quicker you will cum. If she is butt ugly (we all have had bj;s from ugly girls) you may fall asleep, no matter how good she is.

The more aroused a girl can get you the quicker you will cum. Ok, this isn't scientific, just an opinion. But ugly girls can whack away, and if you are thinking about the football game the odds are an hour will pass. now if the chic is hot, what football game, you are gonna plaster her, in ten minutes.


rm_letsbegin4 50M

12/25/2006 9:39 am

I tend to agree with you, but it does depend on the women giving the blow job to begin with. Being a guy and not attached, of course I masturbate, but in the past, I have had a women get me off pretty fast even tough I had masturbated earlier that day. On the same side, there has been times that no masturbation occurred and still did not let go with the blow job. I'm sure it's true for most men as in women, there's always that special spot just waiting to be stimulated, hit that spot and it's over.

jammerone9112 60M

1/26/2007 8:27 am

I think I would need to have an experiment here with a sampling of at least 10 times your effort to determine if my masturbation has had a negative impact on my ability to cum. cool, I look forward to participating in that experiment...LOL

randy318 55M

3/30/2007 4:29 am

A girl friend of mine can play for a long time, esp. when she loves the head and does things that bring me up many times before the big event, which she loves to do and see.....

rm_2lah 56M

4/10/2007 5:20 pm

I'd like to hear from some other women on this subject

rm_ineedluv65 50M
23 posts
4/22/2007 5:49 pm

I think you should do some research on me

rm_BeachnTn 43M

11/4/2007 5:20 pm

Very good point Flirtingforfun.

rm_jascoop66 50M

5/3/2008 1:05 pm

Without being a smartass - I think you're right. When I was actively swinging, one way I ensured I would not have any embarrassing "quick-fire" incidents was to masturbate before going out. It also kept my mind on my partner's pleasure... come to think of it, that part still works

rm_getchalickin 51M
4 posts
5/3/2008 5:34 pm

I think your exactly right. I even read an article on this very subject recently stating the same thing. It's been my experience between relationships when I was masturbating on a regular basis then meet someone and begin having sex that my cock is desensitized from my self abuse that it takes a few weeks to regain that sensitivity.

rm_love4ever00 56M

10/28/2010 2:44 pm

maybe but for me the excitement of being with a woman is much higher and so it is more enjoyable... let meet and find out!!.

ULookn4me2Uknow 61M

3/6/2011 9:42 am

So thats my problem.. not masturbating enough! LOL doh!(silly me!)

kamakala69 56M
58 posts
5/17/2011 4:02 pm

sensitivity of the cock lessens due to over use and with age.

SoupyTacosWaspy 57M

8/15/2011 5:18 pm

let's put it to test together!

1valleyswm 54M

10/9/2011 10:07 am

if i knew i was going to meet you and get a hot bj like your videos, i simply wouldn't cum for 3 or 4 days before. trust me, it would be easy to give you your fill.

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