flagg134 36M
1430 posts
4/15/2006 12:59 pm

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Well I have noticed a question that gets asked alot on the adlines is what kind of picture should they put up. Wether they should do something explicit or to show just their best feature.

Many seem not to know what to show of themselves. To gather the most attention from the opposite or sometimes the same sex. As a picture is the first thing everyone gets to see us as. It could be quite important and make the difference in the type of responses you recieve. Also a factor to if you will recieve any at all.

So I ask you kind readers to tell me what kind of picture you would like to see more of in this lovely community we have here.

Those very classy cock or pussy shots!!!
A torso shot to show of those muscles and/or gut
The well done breast shots
Classic face shots
The seductive silhouettes
Someone in a sexual act getting/giving head or in the act of intercourse.
A great pair of stocking covered legs or hairy ones of the guys
A picture of a pair of eyes that can see through your soul
Shots of a nice ass that you just wish you could squeeze
Other please explain

casualintamacy 44M

4/15/2006 1:37 pm

I guess the question is a tough one as well. There are some people that should never put a pic up.(LO Then there are people that you wish to God they would email you every pic they have! It's a sex site. If you are here looking for your next man/woman to call your husband/wife then ya might have a rude awakening.LOL.

header1979 37M
507 posts
4/15/2006 5:26 pm

Hey Patrick,

We are only allowed to vote for one but there are a variety that I think are effective. I voted for a torso shot. But a torso shot can include a well done breast shot for a woman as well as nice cock shot for a guy. A complete torso with dick and tits lets you know more about person than a close up of just a dick or a vagina or tits. The eye shots are very effective. And face shots for those who want to reveal their identity are good too. There are a few pics of full frontal nudity that show face and the entire front of the body. The close up of a dick, like casualintamcy, does attract men but some women apparently like those shots also. I have been chatting with a guy who recently took down his cock shot because of all the contacts that he was getting from men. But after he took it down, the contacts from both genders dropped considerably. So the cock shot might work, as much as people complain about them. But guys who use cock shots have to understand that they are going to get alot of contacts from men so they just have to learn to live with it and get upset by it. It is the price of doing business.

themisskrissy 56F
2302 posts
4/15/2006 10:51 pm

my picture type wasn't a category.. so in voting "other please explain", i am voting for mine....heheh
2nd runner up is the classic face shot.. followed by header's silhouette (only header's)

Virtue Alone Ennobles

singleagain53578 46F

4/15/2006 11:45 pm

I absolutely HATE the "explicit" pictures. If a guy sends me naked pictures of himself right away, I immediately delete his e mail. After all, IF they had read my profile, they would see that that is NOT what I am looking for.


phoenix639 49F

4/16/2006 1:20 am

I voted for torso. Im a sucker for a well defined chest & back.

Oh god how i love to see a great back. makes me want to run my hands up & down it as i sit on his bum massaging him.......

Bums....ah yes,i also love a great bum too. Squeezy & firm. Grabbed with both hands to pull me in to him mmmm oh god.

Oh & nice eys...yeah eyes i love them mmmmmm sexy sexy.

The face....yes please, a real handsome face does it for me. (my handsome isnt what people always think though).

Actually can i have the whole damn body with all bits shown in sections for close ups (except the cock pics...dont like those).

After re-reading this.....i must get me a man asap.

SolarPowered0 67M
8018 posts
4/16/2006 2:22 am

I have noticed (and this is based strictly on the number of "FEMALES" who have viewed my profile vs "MALES" doing so) that since I put up the photo I have now, and removed the rather exceptional "cock" shot I used to display as my main photo... I have received almost NO FEMALE viewings!

Now, I concede I am not necessarily a prize-package (all of me and not just my "package"), but... it is as clear as day is to night, to me, that having this "face" pic is not the answer to "how one might receive more viewings."

Oh well. I am not really looking for someone anyway. So, it matters little to me if I am viewed or not. But, for the record, I have to say... most women (based, as I have said, on female viewers of my profile) apparently prefer to see dicks.

Solar... (out of the clear blue of the Western Sky)

phoenix639 49F

4/16/2006 5:50 am

Pray tell Mr Bloomalike (J says Hi) whats your fave profile photo then?

flagg134 36M
1582 posts
4/16/2006 6:04 am

SK I'm not one for the polls either actually it just gives me a way of putting out a bunch of options.

I think casual is saying I shouldn't put a pic up hmmmmmm

Header/Solar While the cock pics get more views I'm sure for I'm not entirely comfortable with having that on display for the world to see its just my opinion.

Krissy they only allowed ten catgories so I couldn't go to much into detail about each kind good choices btw.

Single you mean people actually read those things that is surprising news to me.

Phoe You like them all huh I personally think everyone has a good feature thats what they should show. As for my next blog I will shamelessly self promote for you and put that arse up for auction. LMAO

flagg134 36M
1582 posts
4/16/2006 7:56 am

Phoe I have no fave of a particular shot as they each tell something different about a person. The ones I don't like are pussy shots or people in the act I think those should be reserved as photos for a couple.

The rest of the options are pretty good theres nothing like seeing a warm pretty face especially one wearing glasses and the right pair of eyes drive me wild.

Torso shots are great you don't see to many full torso shots of females here which is a shame I don't mind the breasts though.

Derierre's I can think of a few good shots of them one a very famous one on this site. Ones that I can give a squeeze or a spank while they ride.

Legs I love a pair that can wrap around me and squeeze me like a vise.

Like you the whole package would be the most alluring but if I had to choose an important part as a front picture I actually prefer the face.

Now Phoe what may I ask is your definition of handsome?


phoenix639 49F

4/16/2006 8:12 am

Well as you well know my personlaity is my best feature but as that cannot be visually arse to you all....roflmao.

Oh there is someone who thinks im up my own arse isnt there Flagg....our little cousin!!!

phoenix639 49F

4/16/2006 8:13 am

Although i will adnit im in love with Gospels legs...they are gorgeous.

Legs of a rugby player.

phoenix639 49F

4/16/2006 8:14 am

Excuse my drunk hic!

phoenix639 49F

4/16/2006 8:48 am

My dream man is Ray Winstone.... Brit actor. Check him out on his site so you can see what he looks like. An ex boxer (face to prove it) cockney wide boy. Hear of gold, bloody funny & a rough diamond.

I adore Johnny Depp his quirky off beat way. Adore the roles he undertakes. A man with wonderful eyes.

Sean Connery, Sir Anthony Hopkins....hes a gorgeous man actually. Growly husky drop your knickers now type of voice.

Jeez im off again here.....

flagg134 36M
1582 posts
4/16/2006 9:47 am

Your typos are excused arsegirl. Indeed there is now if only he can remove his head from his own ass. I do hereby nominate Cousin_it for waste of DNA status.

Your personality is visually displayed here by your words on the advice lines and your BLOG. Also I doubt many women would disagree with what you consider a handsome face.


themisskrissy 56F
2302 posts
4/16/2006 12:39 pm

Sir mm mm......class and brains...and pretty fly for an old guy....
George Clooney and Richard Gere...

i discovered something ..... my R is eally quite dweeby looking in person, but my he photographs i ma the opposite.

Virtue Alone Ennobles

2GirlsGoodBenBad 36F/33F

4/16/2006 7:29 pm

Our initial photo is a pastie photo - thought it was just something that would catch someone's attention since most shots are typically ultra revealing. But, we have others which are tasteful (in our eyes) but we wouldn't post them on anything affiliated with our professional lives. But, we won't send provocative photos of ourselves to any one figured anything provocative shown or done would be in person.

Best shots are those displaying someone's best asset minus genitalia but I guess if someone's best asset is their genitalia then so be it. But, we usually respond and contact people with full body shots or with photos of their faces.

header1979 37M
507 posts
4/16/2006 8:58 pm

I agree that I would not put up a dick pic nor would I send one to a woman unless she asked and maybe not even then. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty I prefer the way it is done in real life, that is you get to see the real thing when the real thing is about happen. I just feel uncomfortable showing a picture of my dick to a woman that I haven't met. I like to get to know a woman first before we start getting explicit. I wouldn't walk into a bar and whip out my dick to meet women so I will not do it here.

Now with guys, it is a different story. I am not even going to go into the type of pics that bisexual guys exchange with one another. Whew!! You wouldn't believe it anyway. lol

curvymeli 39F

4/16/2006 10:48 pm

Hmm, I couldn't choose. I like looking at a beautiful cock, but if someone is trying to get to talking with me, he better have more than that showing. I also really like torso shots, and butt shots, and back shots...
Men should post more leg pics, that would be different. If I'm trolling through who's online pics I definitely notice just as many cocks as I do faces! But I won't necessarily look at their cock's profile, and I will likely look at the face's.

PS I'm going back and choosing face pics.

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