My "Ideal" Woman  

flagg134 36M
1430 posts
8/31/2006 12:34 pm

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My "Ideal" Woman

I don't think we can define our own ideal person but we can guesstimate as to what we want. What ends up being ideal for us might be entirely different. That is of course why it is important to keep an open mind it can be hard to tell who is that diamond in the rough. Anyway here are my thoughts of what an ideal woman would be for me.

Physically long straight brown or black hair (this is ironic because my LTR's have been blondes). Her eyes would be Light brown or green and very intense able to hold your gaze, make you lose yourself inside of them. She would be between 5'5 and 5'8 height enough so that she could wear nice shoes and not tower over me. Her smile radiant and openly given to me. Skin soft and just a tad bit sensitive to my touch. Lips that are full inviting and seek out my own. She might wear glasses very small so she can look over them.

Mentally she is highly intelligent and witty nothing turns me on quicker then a brain. She carries herself with grace assured with herself yet conscious of others. She is ageless mature, grounded yet also young at heart and willing to let loose. She is fiercely loyal to those who earn her respect. She is open minded and willing to admit if she is wrong or concede a point in an argument. She enjoys dressing up looking sexy for herself but also gets off on what it does to her partner. Finally and this is important she is human she can fall down just like the rest of us.

Ok well now that I wrote that I can't imagine what a woman like that would want with me. Oh well a guy can dream can't he.


The picture I just thought it really fitting to another blog The Perfect AFF Woman

silverhawk762 51M/47F

8/31/2006 1:14 pm

Keep lookin', baby - you'll find her someday! Just don't limit your search to websites... {=}

2daycowboywanted 45F

8/31/2006 1:16 pm

Perfect is in the eye of the beholder. Best wishes!!

Until later

JazzDlight 59F

8/31/2006 2:37 pm

ok I have brown hair but it is not long or straight even though I have tried lol it is wild and wavy. I have brown eyes and I am about 5 feet 7 inches although I think I shrank just a tab in the past couple of yrs to 5 feet 6 and 3/4! I can wear heels but you best believe I will fall down if I wear those suckers lol...I am much more comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt but have been known to put a dress or skirt on when I have don't realize what a pain in the ass pantyhose are...oh and I am old! lol do I still qualify? Hugs, Jazz

themisskrissy 56F
2302 posts
8/31/2006 2:51 pm

hazel eyes here.... oh well.......

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rm_AnOddGirl 57F
3469 posts
8/31/2006 3:37 pm

So you have something against curly haired redheads?

JazzDlight 59F

8/31/2006 3:48 pm

oh yea I forgot I have the small glasses too so I guess I am ahead of the game huh?

nightstalker172 36M
1258 posts
8/31/2006 4:32 pm

I think we all know our ideal mates...I just think we dont persue them. We end up falling prey to peer pressure to much and forceing ourselves to date the "preconceptive ideal"....hence why you dated mostly blondes...but I think deep down we all know what we need and want...its just a matter of finding it and having the strength to listen to yourself instead of others...thats JMO...

flagg134 36M
1582 posts
8/31/2006 5:30 pm

LS: Fishing for compliments I'd have to say that you fit a pretty good chunk of that up there. I do think that it is our imperfections that truly make us interesting anyway...thats why the falling down thing is there I honestly wouldn't want the "Perfect Woman". I think the problem is too many people kind of expect perfection theres no such thing.

Silver: Thats the plan and honestly I use this site to blog at this point looking for a date as a single male here is really tough. It doesnt matter anyway I don't limit my search to ideals this is just my picture of one at the moment it is subject to change if and when I do ever fall madly in love.

Cowboywanted: Very true and it will likely change these are just qualities that generally cause me to gravitate to women.

Jazz: LOL I'm not searching for ideals and never will its a fools endeavor. Oh and plenty of women look quite nice without being dressed for a wedding. Even t-shirt and jeans is sexy if done right its the illusion the woman creates of herself and her attitude that is truly important.

Krissy: Damn and you were so promising....I suppose I could make an exception but only because its you

Sexyeyes: You are right I do not ask for the impossible nor do I even really seek a woman who would fit all my ideals. I'm sure theres one out there but that would be quite a search and far too limiting. You are right though I need to be less self effacing I do have things going for me that many men at least the ones on here do not.

AnOddGirl: Nope oh and being odd well thats always been a plus in my book.

Nightstalker: You are definitely right about how others opinions affect our decisions on what we need. Although the blondes I were with I wouldn't call settling in fact in one case it was a fight to even stay in that relationship. Those were just my best oppurtunities to be honest.


real36CgirlPA 37F

8/31/2006 6:50 pm

Hey, at least you have an idea about what you want. I usually date whoever trips and falls into my lap first and he mysteriously becomes "dream man" as soon as he shows some interest

velvetgrrrl 39F

8/31/2006 7:10 pm

Woo hoo to a degree i also fit your ideal except I'm even shorter than 5'5
My eyes are hazel so I'm a combo light brown/green

That falling down don't mind a klutz cause boy am I a klutz! I can trip on even ground! LoL

Seriously though, we all have our ideals. We all look for characteristics here and there that make out ideal more real when we compare them to someone live. However sometimes picking a girl base don characteristics you find ideal in the long run don't work out. Perhaps why you've dated blondes. But certainly someone is out there who will see some idealistic qualities in you. You come across as having such a low opinion of yourself and you so totally shouldn't!

Hell is when u should have walked away, but u didn't.

nightstalker172 36M
1258 posts
9/1/2006 3:50 am

You are definitely right about how others opinions affect our decisions on what we need. Although the blondes I were with I wouldn't call settling in fact in one case it was a fight to even stay in that relationship. Those were just my best oppurtunities to be honest.

I didnt mean that you settled. I ment that its programed into people the ideal and blondes/5'9"/blue eyes fit that ideal...exsample when you are with a group of guys they all talk about hot blondes like Pam Anderson or Jenna Jameson...but they often dont comment on what they really find attractive they often go with the pact...alot of guys will think in their heads that this type of women is the cream of the crop so to speak and its an ego boost in some ways...but more often than not it leaves them in bad relationships...I did the same thing so...I dont think any guy is innocent of following the pack at one time or another...

Gossip_Anyone 40F

9/1/2006 6:47 am

damn i'm 5'5 but i was cursed with red....dang my two parents for both giving me redhead genes...

SensuousWoman3 55F
3106 posts
9/1/2006 8:23 pm

ñ Oh, gawd, ban the blonde already, will ya?

rm_muffin162 55M
763 posts
9/2/2006 3:19 pm

Flagg. I like a women who has some curves,it she has some curves then i am attracted to her,but she can become a ideal women if we have some camaraderie, if we are comfortable with each other.

themisskrissy 56F
2302 posts
9/4/2006 4:13 pm

it is time to think about new glasses and i find myself wondering if i can get them any smaller.... maybe i will find bottom only rims....

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