I AM SO SICK OF THIS SHIT  

five_speed 41M
3250 posts
9/25/2005 2:57 pm

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I AM SO SICK OF THIS SHIT

Ok folks, it’s time to get real for a second. As many of you know, there’s been a lot of drama and double speak going on in blog land lately, especially with me and a few of my friends here. I am sick of it ‒ sick too death of it, and I am writing this in an attempt to halt the bullshit before I lose some one very important to me.

First off, let me point out the obvious. We are all on an adult sex site. I am a man, and I am single. I am also mobile, meaning I can relocate just about anywhere I want.

So I have emailed and chatted with a few women, and we have discussed the possibility of me coming out to meet them. I was considering a road trip out west that I was going to launch after the convention, and I planned to make a few stops and meet a few folks, some for friendship, and others for friendship and sex.

Well, in recent days, DT and I have become very close. We have been friends from Day 1, but in just the last week, we have discovered we think of each other as more than friends, and I plan to meet her in mid-October. I do not know what will happen when we meet, but we both have high hopes. I think it is going to be a good thing, and I do not anticipate taking my trip west, at least not alone.

When these new circumstances became clear and certain to me, I told everyone I had been speaking with that plans had changed. I did it because I did not want anyone to think I had been leading them on, because I was not. I think many people thought I was anyway, because of the way she and I flirt in Blogland. I think they thought I had been leading them along from the start, but I wasn’t. The “stalking” was just a joke. We did not get serious until this past week.

I know I hurt some people’s feelings. I know for certain that I really hurt one woman a lot, and she probably thinks I’m a lying two-faced bastard, and I am very sorry events transpired in such a way that anyone got hurt. I didn’t want to hurt anyone, and I did everything I knew to do to prevent it, but I’m only a man, and I fuck up sometimes. I am sorry. I feel terrible about causing pain to anyone, but I found myself in a situation where some one was going to get hurt no matter what I did, and I had to do what I thought was best for me.

But now I am also getting really pissed off. It seems that some of these people, and I don’t know who exactly, but more than one, have emailed DT and told her about the plans I had tentatively made before DT and I became close. It seems they are making me out to be a liar and a player, when I am neither. DT is upset, and now she doubts me and my integrity, and everything is right on the edge of falling apart.

I can’t believe this petty high-school he-said she-said bullshit is going on. It makes me sick at my stomach. I am going to Tennessee to see her, and we are going to get this bullshit lined out, and if she’ll have me, I am not going anywhere else. If she dumps me, I’ll still be on the site, but I am not going to be looking to meet anyone else for some time. I’ll stick to the blog and that’s it. All previously discussed plans with anyone and everyone else are cancelled.

To whoever is emailing her and trying to mess this up for us, all I know to say is “Fuck you.” I would tell you directly and personally, but DT won’t drop the names.

My apologies to everyone else who is not involved in any fashion but read this announcement anyway.


007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
9/25/2005 4:15 pm

FIVE-I do not understand why people become so petty in their daily dealings. That is the main reason I do not let on to everyone as to the guy I see from the site. Because when petty bullshit start to interfere with what we have going on, not only will it mess up things he and I have it would also make me become very angry. I cannot blame you for being upset and I am sorry this has happened to you. I hope that you two can work through this and get things going. Never let anyone drive a wedge between you and a potential lover. take it from an old woman(well not that old). You do what you have to do to make that work. And when you get to tennessee, give a sister a shout out. And have lots of fun. Who ever DT is I am sure she will show you our southern hospitality. Enjoy! and again I am sorry but let the bullshit pour in on one end on through and out the next.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"


rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
9/25/2005 4:23 pm

You think this is bad just wait til TDA comes home.


your_gypsy 51F

9/25/2005 4:27 pm

i'm sure this won't post to the public, but why don't you take responsibility for what you said to me.. the other person involved here. i am not the one who has been talking to dt, ask her yourself. neither of you is talking to me, and the last i spoke with you was when you told me you are going to see her. i told you previously that it was up to you and that i would accept your choice. it did hurt me because you did lead me on! if you deny that i have got emails to remind you with, but i'm sure you won't admit to it because you are so busy blaming others for the apathy that you have in your life and claim to "not know what to do..." oh that is the sorriest shit i ever heard. how are we women supposed to go on taking chances on love in life with guys like you who yes are indeed playing games??? jessus christ man stop turning it around and look at yourself for a change!!


kyplowboy2 61M

9/25/2005 4:31 pm

I'm right with ya, bro! I wouldn't see anyone but her if I was you, and all of those who thought they could get to you by cuckleing her, be damned. I wouldn't trust a single one of those who COULD have been the ones doing that shit. So, to all the innocent women in this, you need to get together a posse of your own and clean that part of your house out. Now if things don't work out with 5er and DT, you're not even gonna get a chance at it. Each and every one of you has already been shot out of the saddle. Do what you gotta do, RB, I'll pull security while you Charlie Mike. Later

kpb2


barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
9/25/2005 4:58 pm

Well ty 5 speed for being so honest with your feelings and having the integrity for layin it all out there.

If u need a tour guide out west for you two lemme know.. as I am available..

Now i have been hit with some cowardly petty shit as well, but the rats wont even have the guts to email me directly. You know why? Because their beef isnt a logical argument but a petty, caustic insecure one to take you down a rung or two and place doubt in your friends...

So if u are dear frinds here give the person the benefit of the doubt FOR the GOOD, not the ill.

5, I know things will go just like theyre ment..and ill buy ya'll a drink out here.. xo hang in there
B

Its good to be...ME


rm_sexymama4256 47F
8 posts
9/25/2005 6:13 pm

your doing the right thing by speaking your mind......and i agree with wetpantyslut2....GO GET YOUR WOMAN!


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/25/2005 6:14 pm

All I care to say at this point is that I'm fully aware of the emails mentioned in the rebuttle before you. I am prepared to discuss fully why he might have made the decision he did based on circumstances that were brought to his attention that just happen to be documented in my emails, and the IM's of others. I'm sure that he would prefer I handle this in an adult manner, so I shall until he has a chance to view this himself. This post was not intended for the person who issued the rebuttle. She has made no contact with me since he made his decision.

As far as 5 and I, we're great. Couldn't be better. We've been closely bonded friends for quite some time now, so we have a strong foundation from which to build. Being that I was a trusted confidant, he discussed openly with me the evolving situation with the person who issued the rebuttle. So, yes, I'm very aware of everything.

We actually realized our feelings were somewhat deeper than we anticipated a few weeks ago, and have struggled with many issues since. Last week, we decided we had no other choice but to give this a shot, as we couldn't see not being a part of one another's lives on a daily basis. It's been a painful process for all involved, our dear friend T catching the worst in the middle it seems. We love you bro.

I hope none of you take to heart anything negative that was said about him above. Any of you that know the true 5 as I do know he'd never intentionally hurt anyone. Neither would I. The heart wants what it wants. No one has the power to stop that.

Thanks to all of you for your support, especially the 2 or 3 who knew this was unfolding between us perhaps before we did ourselves. And yes, we're both capable of remaining friends should things not work out between us. That's one thing we've focused on strongly because we do care so much about one another.

5...thank you. Although this wasn't necessary, and I'm still in utter shock that you issued this post, do know I appreciate your doing so. Perhaps our days from this point forward will be filled with nothing but beautiful harmony. Kisses...


five_speed 41M

9/25/2005 6:17 pm

Well, gypsy, I confess I thought about deleting your comment, but I have decided to let it be because I am not playing games, and this shit has to stop.

I hope this blog serves as a reminder to everyone that the emotions in Blogland are real, from real people, and the tears are real too.

I had left names out of this because I thought it was wrong to drag people in specifically, gypsy. I know you have not been talking to DT, and I know I have not talked to you. Since you bailed on me a few days ago, you have emailed me twice and left two voice mails, and I know I have not replied to any of them yet because you have angered me, but more importantly, I simply do not know what to say. “I’m sorry” just doesn’t seem to cover it.

Since I obviously cannot trust you to have the sense to be discreet and polite, we might as well air all the dirty laundry here before you go posting my private emails in your blog or emailing them to DT or some other such nonsense.

I know what I told you on the phone and through our emails. I still have my copies too, you know. I know I told you that DT and I were just friends, and I know I told you that I would rather drive to Texas than Tennessee. I know we even had cute little nicknames for each other, but all of that was before she and I really got to know each other.

It happened quickly. Literally one day we were just friends fucking around and teasing each other on Blogland, and the next day we realized how much we really do have in common and that we really do have feelings for each other.

I knew then that some one was going to get hurt, and I was trying to figure out how to handle it, what to do, because I have never been in this kind of situation before. But before I could figure out the best thing to do, both you and DT started asking questions and forcing the issue. I could have lied to buy myself more time, but I didn't. I told you both the truth as I understood it to be.

I say “as I understood it to be” because I don’t understand positive emotions very well. I don’t have much practice dealing with love, or affection, or even happiness, for that matter. My views and directives have changed quickly over these last few days as I have come to understand myself and these feelings better.

You ran away from me when I told you I was going to see her. You just bailed. Then you wrote to me and told me that you understood my position and you had to do what was best for you. Your blog disappeared. Then you wrote again and tried to use my own words against me, and that's where you pissed me off.

Do you think I forgot the things I told you? Do you think I liked hurting you? Do you think I'm proud of myself or happy with myself? I'm not. I feel like the worlds biggest asshole, but there is nothing else I know to do.

The situation spiraled out of my control instantly, and I knew - it was crystal clear to me - that I was going to hurt and lose you both if I did not do something and do it fast. I had no time to think, not time to figure out what was going on. So I went with my gut feeling, with my heart, and did what I thought was best for everyone involved.

I let you go.

I am sorry that it happened this way, because I did not want to hurt you, and I worry that it will be enough to sour things between DT and I. Will that make you happy? To know I am still alone and miserable, sitting here by myself while I watch my life just crumble into shit? Well, if that’s what you want, keep wishing for it, because it could still happen. DT is as sick of this shit as I am, and I just know she’s on the fringe of letting me go just to be free of the stupid drama. The minute she dumps me, her life goes back to normal because none of this shit matters anymore.

In the worst case scenario, you both will have nothing to do with me, and in that case, I'll still have to be able to live with myself. I know I have hurt you, and DT as well, but I also know it was not on purpose, and I know I have done the very best I could. These are cold comforts; I still feel like King of the Assholes, but at least my conscience is clear.

What else can I say? I don’t know what else to say. Nothing else comes to mind at the moment, nothing honest anyway. I’d like to wish you luck and hope that things work out for you, but the truth is you have badgered me here, in my email, and on my phone. You have tried to manipulate my emotions by using my own words against me, and you are severely jeopardizing the very fragile peace and understanding I have with DT. I am truly sorry you are hurting. I know you feel like I lied to you and lead you on, but I don’t see it that way. I also know you will never understand these things from my perspective, so I don’t see how we have anything further to discuss. I just want you to leave me alone.


five_speed 41M

9/25/2005 6:32 pm

Well, gypsy, I confess I thought about deleting your comment, but I have decided to let it be because I am not playing games, and this shit has to stop.

I hope this blog serves as a reminder to everyone that the emotions in Blogland are real, from real people, and the tears are real too.

I had left names out of this because I thought it was wrong to drag people in specifically, gypsy. I know you have not been talking to DT, and I know I have not talked to you. Since you bailed on me a few days ago, you have emailed me twice and left two voice mails, and I know I have not replied to any of them yet because you have angered me, but more importantly, I simply do not know what to say. “I’m sorry” just doesn’t seem to cover it.

Since I obviously cannot trust you to have the sense to be discreet and polite, we might as well air all the dirty laundry here before you go posting my private emails in your blog or emailing them to DT or some other such nonsense.

I know what I told you on the phone and through our emails. I still have my copies too, you know. I know I told you that DT and I were just friends, and I know I told you that I would rather drive to Texas than Tennessee. I know we even had cute little nicknames for each other, but all of that was before she and I really got to know each other.

It happened quickly. Literally one day we were just friends fucking around and teasing each other on Blogland, and the next day we realized how much we really do have in common and that we really do have feelings for each other.

I knew then that some one was going to get hurt, and I was trying to figure out how to handle it, what to do, because I have never been in this kind of situation before. But before I could figure out the best thing to do, both you and DT started asking questions and forcing the issue. I could have lied to buy myself more time, but I didn't. I told you both the truth as I understood it to be.

I say “as I understood it to be” because I don’t understand positive emotions very well. I don’t have much practice dealing with love, or affection, or even happiness, for that matter. My views and directives have changed quickly over these last few days as I have come to understand myself and these feelings better.

You ran away from me when I told you I was going to see her. You just bailed. Then you wrote to me and told me that you understood my position and you had to do what was best for you. Your blog disappeared. Then you wrote again and tried to use my own words against me, and that's where you pissed me off.

Do you think I forgot the things I told you? Do you think I liked hurting you? Do you think I'm proud of myself or happy with myself? I'm not. I feel like the worlds biggest asshole, but there is nothing else I know to do.

The situation spiraled out of my control instantly, and I knew - it was crystal clear to me - that I was going to hurt and lose you both if I did not do something and do it fast. I had no time to think, not time to figure out what was going on. So I went with my gut feeling, with my heart, and did what I thought was best for everyone involved.

I let you go.

I am sorry that it happened this way, because I did not want to hurt you, and I worry that it will be enough to sour things between DT and I. Will that make you happy? To know I am still alone and miserable, sitting here by myself while I watch my life just crumble into shit? Well, if that’s what you want, keep wishing for it, because it could still happen. DT is as sick of this shit as I am, and I just know she’s on the fringe of letting me go just to be free of the stupid drama. The minute she dumps me, her life goes back to normal because none of this shit matters anymore.

In the worst case scenario, you both will have nothing to do with me, and in that case, I'll still have to be able to live with myself. I know I have hurt you, and DT as well, but I also know it was not on purpose, and I know I have done the very best I could. These are cold comforts; I still feel like King of the Assholes, but at least my conscience is clear.

What else can I say? I don’t know what else to say. Nothing else comes to mind at the moment, nothing honest anyway. I’d like to wish you luck and hope that things work out for you, but the truth is you have badgered me here, in my email, and on my phone. You have tried to manipulate my emotions by using my own words against me, and you are severely jeopardizing the very fragile peace and understanding I have with DT. She and I will always be friends. Of that, I have no doubt, but I would like it to be more than that, but it may not be. We will meet and see. I do know that this bull shit does not help matters any at all, and it has to stop.

I am truly sorry you are hurting. I know you feel like I lied to you and lead you on, but I don’t see it that way. I also know you will never understand these things from my perspective, so I don’t see how we have anything further to discuss. I just want you to leave me alone.


barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
9/25/2005 6:41 pm

well that would be mighty southern of u Tex--since u were the one that did push me all manly to the floor ...least you can do is come over here and finished whut u started you lilly livered can't -seduce a girl to save his life- popcorn toting-galoot... nice and easy or nice-n-rough T but ure gonna get a lickin.....u got what it takes to help me big bird???

Its good to be...ME


barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
9/25/2005 6:42 pm

**falls @ gypsys feet**

Its good to be...ME


barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
9/25/2005 6:55 pm

yeah I scream.... (one boob spills out.)..(looks thru her tousled hair).."bring all u got and the extender cus ure gonna need it this time!!"

Its good to be...ME


KhaosKitty 42F
123 posts
9/25/2005 7:05 pm

*looks from the popcorn she was carrying to Trav's and back again, then puts it down on a table before taking a seat*

Personally, I say congratulations and best wishes to the two of you. And, quite frankly, I think that friends are friends, whether benefits are involved or not. Just because sex is out of the picture with the women you've been talking to doesn't mean that you aren't still their friend. Unless that was all they wanted in the first place, in which case... Well, there you go.

Regardless, I hope to get a chance to meet you both if your road trip circles through Texas - as I'm sure it will, because otherwise Trav will doubtless hunt you both down.


barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
9/25/2005 7:10 pm

pressing hard against trav..thinking if he only had a heart...talk about mechanical....slipps him the tongue... gripps his can..hard...accidently rolls over gypsys feet

Its good to be...ME


barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
9/25/2005 7:26 pm

**squirms and growls and presses tits againt his face..tries to suffocate him...Oh darling... how ive wanted you.... take my bodacious tatas...evil giggle***

Its good to be...ME


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/25/2005 8:14 pm

I'm not letting go. Never. We've been through too much to walk away. It can only get better from here.

Damn it feels good to get all this shit out and behind us!

C'mere...gimme a kiss

(anyone else notice the se gone wild in here during the drama????


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
9/25/2005 8:51 pm

5 SPEEEEEDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HELL YES, BUDDY... GO GET YOUR WOMAN... AND DT...I'M GLAD YOU ARE DECIDING TO NOT LET GO...

This is the scentiment that I spoke about in a couple of my blogs. Not wanting to hurt anyone and you are conversating with various people and then...One becomes serious...
Love or the possibility of it is the greatest thing in the world. It just so happens that this forum puts it out there for a whole lot of people to see.

I wish both of you the best of luck...

Siz


rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
9/25/2005 10:53 pm

You know, anyone over the age of 20 should know that shit happens, it doesn't have to be planned. Everyone is on this ADULT site and should behave like an adult, I know, I know, it's a stretch for Trav but we love him anyway. I never quite figured out the women that pointed fingers and called names. Do they think that's going to get them the guy? Or being vindictive and trying to screw something up for him that he might have going? Yeah man, you pitch a better bitch fit, I'll just dump her and coming running to you. If you walk away and hold your head up with class, it'll always leave the guy wondering, even if just a little, about his decision. (Shaking head, thinking fucking grow up)

And 5, baby, best of luck to you guys. If you do head out this way you better give me a holler.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.


five_speed 41M

9/26/2005 12:46 am

Straightten, thank you very much for the advice and support. I think everything is going to be OK.

Saint, you ain’t kiddin there. Pappy’s liable to tan my hide good!

Jez, thank you, sweet heart.

kpb2, thanks for watching my six, buddy!

Bunny, thanks for the offer. It’s much appreciated, but I think I already have a side kick picked out to ride shotgun with me.

Trav, you and bunny need to get a room… preferably a padded one with hidden sleep gas jets.

wetpanties, thanks for the well wishes. I’ll be on my way soon!

sexymama, I was worried it would back lash on me, but it had to be done. I was just so tired of it all.

DT, darling, you are welcome. I just wanted to make things right, and this was the only thing I knew to do. I am so glad it helped. It does feel good to get it out and over with.

Tasha, thank you very much for the support!

Khaos, DT and I will remain friends no matter what. I have no doubt of that. If something more develops, that will be absolutely awesome, but neither of us is trying to force anything. We are going to meet and see what happens. And yes, I am sure we will be through Texas before we are done.

Hey Sizzle, great to see you buddy. thanks for the support!


Angelcurls47 61F

9/26/2005 12:47 am

I just gotta get in the mix here. Forgive me if I am out of place or bounds....
I've only been reading nearly most of just about all of ya here's blog, with the exception of maybe 2 or 3. What I've learned in that short amount of time is that I believe 5 is as genuine, sincere and honest a man as I've ever seen, just by the way the man writes. I think DT is also the same....and I sincerely am happy to hear 5 express his determination for a positive future with DT. I am equally happy to see DT's determination to hang on. You know, we're all here for hundreds of different reasons and agendas. Even the people who say they are only looking for sex....DEEP, DEEP down inside...they really want more, with the exception being those who are married and looking to fool around behind their spouses backs or those couples who are looking to swing. The majority of the people though are single and regardless of what the profile may say...things do happen. People do meet up on here and it clicks. I can totally see how 1 day or 1 week or 1 month ago...things might be one way...then all of a sudden--a realization that something else is where the heart is or where the heart feels it's going....and for anyone else, knowing that maybe someone they might have had their hopes on..only to realize that things have changed and then to sabatage the relationship growing day by day between 2 people who have discovered what could possibly be the beginning of something quite wonderful. Hell, I think who ever is bad mouthing 5 and/or trying to interfere with the love that appears to be growing between 5 and DT ought to be ashamed of themselves. Life and love...is hard enough as it is...and if they've found a common thread/bond/love/respect...then by damn let 'em have that chance to make it work without throwing a monkey wrench into the works and trying to mess up not only your life...but theirs as well. Like I said a bit earlier.. I don't know any of you... and have only been following the blogs for the last couple of weeks...but I've read many sincere post's....and it just makes me want to cry to think that 2 people have a chance and jealousy from someone else wants to try and ruin it. I think it's fantastic if 5 and DT are able to find what they are looking for in each other... Same goes for all of the people who do manage to find more than just sex...
Whew...ok...nuff said... I apologize for going on a rant... Don't let anyone or anything cause the doors of communication to close. Hang in there...and I'm rootin for ya both... Slide


Angelcurls47 61F

9/26/2005 12:51 am

~~oops...now ya know my other side...~~ shhhhhhh..k. Oh...and good luck to you both... Angel


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/26/2005 2:49 am

**eyes covered**

Have T and the Bunny finished yet?

"Rest Stop on I-69 Gone Wild"


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/26/2005 4:07 am

5? Does this mean I can stop stalking you and fondle you at will?


LustGoddess2469 50F  
2453 posts
9/26/2005 8:02 am

Ok...did I take a hit to the head, go into a coma, and somehow end up back in high school? Helllooo?! I thought this was an ADULT site? I'm sitting here shaking my head and rolling my eyes after reading all of this.

Ladies that wanted 5-speed...sorry, but he's following his heart and that path leads to DT, so get over it.

DT and 5, best of luck to the both of you. I'm envious of you both for finding "the one", and I wish all of the happiness in the world for yas.

Glances over at Bunny and Trav with raised eyebrow - and you two - get a room! LOL

Lusty


Synn74 42F
1206 posts
9/26/2005 8:42 am

to 5 and DT!!!!!! I'm wishing you both the best!!!!! i knew this was gonna happen

I will say this ..openly...
there are days my feeling are hurt or crushed here in blogland but then the very next day the same personthat hurt me swells my heart till i'm smiling ear to ear.. I love many of you here ..you're in a sense a part of my extended family.. we all fight that's our nature
but we're adults and we show know by now life sucks but we just pick ourselves up brush off and walk on..



I welcome you to the House of Syn...


rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
9/26/2005 9:19 am

Geez...and I've been wasting all my time over on Tall's blog! I'm still rather new to this so I'm just getting to know people still, often from the periphery. And I've really gotten a kick out of the banter between you two (or you four, to include the other two goofballs, lol). My unsolicited Mom Advice - good that you got it out, definitely. Now let it go and have a wonderful time. Life is short. And from (most of) our perspectives, there's nothing in the world more delightful than to watch a natural human chemistry blossom in to something that only comes along once in a great while. It is inspiring to the rest of us.

Okay, NOW GO BE HAPPY AND EXCITED ABOUT THIS!!!!!!!!

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]


five_speed 41M

9/26/2005 9:54 am

Daphne, thank you for the support. If we come through your way one of these days, it would be great to grab a bite of lunch with you. Whats a good place to eat in your town?

Honni, level headed and wise, as always. Thank you.

Angle Curls, thanks for the rant, especially since it was in support of me! Your secret is safe with me.


five_speed 41M

9/26/2005 9:55 am

DT, the stalking is over, baby. You've caught me. Now it's time to play with your food.


redlipsprincess
(Princess Lips)
51F

9/26/2005 11:10 am

5 and DT good luck....

TTFN


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/26/2005 11:28 am

Mahalo Wahine -

You do realize when I'm visiting Oahu next summer there's a possibility he'll be in tow. What fun it would be for you and I to take him to the SOS show and have Bert & the guys drag him up on stage.

Happy? I'm just incredibly delirious today! (hugs)


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/26/2005 11:35 am

5, babe, now you know my Mom taught me never to play with my food.

Lucky for you, I rarely heeded her advice. Where shall I start?

(After the map story, I'm sure you understand why, lol.)


rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
9/26/2005 1:43 pm

If you want real honest to goodness New Mexican food you go to Sadie's in the North Valley. If you want a little toned down for tourists that can't handle the heat you hit Gardunos.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.


rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
9/26/2005 5:17 pm

DT - a few days ago you left a comment on my blog re: Oahu in July and I made a mental note of it. There is NO WAY that I will let you get this far without a visit! I'm still an island away, but it's only a 20 minute trip by air. Swimming takes considerably longer, I hear. Anyway, yes...looking forward to it.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]


five_speed 41M

9/26/2005 5:51 pm

LustGoddess, 1hotwahine, redlips, thank all of you for your support. we both appreciate it !

Daphne, I don't do ANYTHING toned down. It will have to be Sadie's.


five_speed 41M

9/26/2005 5:55 pm

DT, Hawaii, eh? What is this SOS show you speak of? Why do I not like the sounds of "Bert and the guys drag him on stage?"

As for listening to your mother.... don't. If you listen to yours, I'll have to start listening to mine, and mine told me to never date women i met online.... So let's both be rebels!


dano6332 56M

9/26/2005 6:35 pm

5er LOL I TOLD YOU SO uh huh I could definitely see the DT thang coming. DT what about all the XXX rated emails you sent me? The nasty photos where you superimposed my head on Travs body (which still sorta creeps me out) I demand crap where in the hell did I put those demands? Oh yeah World peace, Dubya out of office (ok I can dream) and 5 sending me his secret seduction tapes so I can listen to them at night. I am very happy for both of you and am just tickled pink. Now everyone kiss and make up NOT YOU Trav get the hell away from me arrrrggggghhhhhhhh


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/26/2005 8:56 pm

lmao Dano...I didn't superimpose anything...they're the real deal. They're yours for a price...


barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
9/26/2005 10:22 pm

5..it was for both of you..besides, i like dt better....lol

Its good to be...ME


rm_shortsweet98 36F
34 posts
9/26/2005 10:33 pm

To 5er and DT: I hope this issue is resolved so your feelings for each other can grow as they should....and I hope those caught in the middle can understand and hopefully move on with no hard feelings. I've been in situations similar to this and it is not easy and always painful to one party or another.

....and 5er.....if the two of you ever hook up......can I watch?


five_speed 41M

9/27/2005 12:40 pm

wetpanties, We have so many friends in Texas, we might as well have our own mini convention. I've talked it over with T. We're thinking Motel 6, big grill out back by the pool, an old bath tub full of ice and booze, and an old radio wih a coat hanger for an attenna. If either of us gets a job before then, we'll upgrade the radio to an eight track player.

Dano, I'll send you my sectret seduction tapes, as soon as you send me a notarized medical affidavit from a certified physician that states you have not heart or blood pressure problems and are not currently taking any kind of medication for such conditions.

Barbie, You're too sweet, darlin.

ShortSweet, Great to see you! I am sorry to refuse any request from one of my online associates, but I cannot allow you to watch. I have a hard enough time performing when only my partner is around to laugh at me. If I have other people in the room laughing at me too, I am totally worthless.


five_speed 41M

9/27/2005 12:42 pm

DT, "I didn't superimpose anything...they're the real deal. They're yours for a price... "

Whaaaaat?

I think there is something you've failed to mention to me...


dano6332 56M

9/27/2005 4:18 pm

5er oooops............ sorry I thought you knew ummmm remember the movie "Boogie nights"? Really it is just a prothetic and that is not all me. I like to wear it when I pose for photos. LMAO


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 8:52 pm

lmao...you're all nuts.

SOS : Society of Seven...hilarious show. My cousin runs the showroom, so one of us all gets drug up on stage.


34andahalf4U 49M/44F

9/28/2005 9:45 am

(him) Ok, like it needs ONE more, but here it is.
5, glad you found someone special; DT, don't know you yet, but all the best wishes to you. 5 & I have been through some similar things so I can understand COMPLETELY why this has bothered him.

Not only is he a man of his word, he's a man of his heart. Sometimes that makes us have to change our 'plans'. It's sad that those hurt couldn't recognize that. It's ok to hurt, but good golly, suck it up and drive on, right?

5, wasn't it so much easier when overcomming an obsticle mean the correct application of comp. #4? FOLLOW YOUR BLISS


DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/1/2005 8:23 pm

34 - all is well. No, all is fabulous. He's simply amazing.


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