The two guys sitting on my shoulders  

fishn4funwithu 47M
53 posts
8/15/2005 3:27 pm

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The two guys sitting on my shoulders

You know the good guy on one shoulder and the bad guy on the other. The good guy is telling me I should not be here, that I have responsibilities and commitments. The bad guy is telling me that I am in a sexless dead end marriage and I should get out there and get my dick wet for a change.

Is the good guy even the good guy? Maybe it is just how you look at them. I'm not sure.

This post will surely draw the women to me right? A guy with issues. What women wouldn't find that attractive.

Just needed to vent a little. If you would like to bash me or commend me, feel free. I am open to all opinions.

il_shiraz 46F
1 post
8/15/2005 5:09 pm

LOL! What was that John Cusack Movie, Say Anything? It's not about complaining it about having a voice, that is sexy. What would we poor women do without a few men who want to wet there dicks in our pussys! As long as you keep your responsibilities and commitments on one side and your desires on here on the other. Then who could bash you especially on this site.

rm_cele2flowers 42F
75 posts
8/15/2005 7:42 pm

I think all you gotta do is strive for balance between the two. Don't let the "good" guy make you concentrate on your commitments and responsibilites 24/7. But at the sametime, don't let the "bad" guy have you playing 24/7. It's all about balance and I'm sure you will find it.

discreet33026 47M
15 posts
9/12/2005 8:14 pm

Man...I hear you...I have been married for 11 years now and even though I like my wife and kids, I need more sex...and I know I won't ever get it from her...what to do...what to do.
They say that the first infidelity is the hardest one...then it is easier..think about it

rm_mojomike 50M
45 posts
10/10/2005 10:49 am

sharing yourself to others is a self healing experience. It's OK to open up within moderation. Also it gives foresight to those that might just find you attractive.

Now you are enconterrng the power of having to take a choice which has long term effects. Being true to those choices one makes is a very strong position. Speakng publicly give you the opertunity to listen to other views.

best of luck, and travel the road, for where it leads, only you will know

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