Shopping CAN be fun  

firstflight6942 57M
37 posts
8/4/2006 8:42 am

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8/9/2006 9:02 pm

Shopping CAN be fun

Yup, went shopping last night and had a blast. Took a look at a couple of duplexes in the hood and fell in love with one. Great place.
Well maintained & updated to my liking.

Affordable? Well, I think I can make it work. Calling Mr/Ms. Finance this morning to see if it will work out. We (cute realtor lady & I ) went over the logistics last night and it all looks good. I am a little giddy about the whole thing.

Now on the home front? Funny night as well. My wife went with to look at the properties because logistically we have to buy it together and then split it up later when all the paper work is done. She was there and I asked her opinions about things in the house, but she felt like a third party to me. I think that was a good thing. A huge step in the letting go process. Anyway, she liked the place an awful lot as well and I think was a bit envious. Tee hee... Maybe that's why I am a little giddy. Finally I am not the one who's embattled with this whole thing.

After I spent time with the realtor My wife and I walked the dog and talked about the house and all that it encompasses. All of the work we have to do on another duplex of ours so we can sell it so we can buy the one in question. We talked a little about her decision on the divorce and that's actually where it got a little weird. She is second guessing herself. Wondering if she made the right decision or not. Oye! "Make up your gd mind for cs!" is what I was thinking. And me, who really didn't want this thing in the first place found myself telling her to trust her heart. I encouraged her to go with her gut feeling on the whole thing which three days ago was a divorce. This from a guy who three days was distraught more or less.

Funny how things change. I felt myself thinking "well if you aren't going to file maybe I should." Hell's bells batman I have a life to live here! Again, made me feel giddy....

I was so involved in this whole house thing I totally forgot I was going to go out. So I missed some M & G that I kind of wanted to go to but maybe really didn't. If I really wanted to go so bad I don't think I would have spaced it. All I know is for the first time since Mother's Day I feel real good. I mean REAL good. Not an anxious bone in my body today. I'm slept like a baby last night and woke up as hungry as hungry can be.

Born again, August 4th, 2006. And I don't need diapers (or a bible) this time

2daycowboywanted 45F

8/4/2006 9:48 am

Glad to see that things are turning around for you!

Until later

firstflight6942 57M
30 posts
8/4/2006 11:51 am

Thanx 2day, haven't been this giddy in ages...

rm_bkwrmgurl 49F

8/4/2006 6:49 pm

Ahh, the back and forth emotions of divorce. It sucks. But you sound pretty positive today. Keep your chin up.

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