The Confidence Factor  

firestarter665 42M/39F
3158 posts
3/23/2006 4:48 pm

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3/25/2006 4:00 am

The Confidence Factor

After giving my husband a very thorough blow job last night he said to me "You have been pretty active lately". I took this as a compliment because he has been very satisfied lately and yes, I have been active.

Maybe it is just me, but I have to feel good about myself in order to be active. If I feel like a fat blob then I think that others (my husband0 see me that way. I know that he would never see me that way and that it is all pretty much in my head.

For me, my sexuality comes from confidence about myself.

Where does your sexuality come from?

SpaceRangerNJ 55M
4687 posts
3/23/2006 9:00 pm

Sure, confidence plays an important role. If I feel naive, unsure of myself, self conscious, I'm sure I don't come across as attractive to a woman. I need to be relaxed and Feel accepted.
It was suggested to me that my wife may have been self conscious about her weight and that was why she wasn't showing any interest. Which didn't make sense. I married her when she was overweight. I have never knowingly done anything to make her feel bad about herself with regards to weight. Never gave it much thought.
I know a woman who's husband actually told her she was getting fat and should loose weight. How rude. And I thought she looked pretty good just as she was. Some men are just stupid. I couldn't imagine ever saying that to someone.

sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
3/23/2006 9:14 pm

Confidence and the naughty vixen in me


3/23/2006 9:45 pm

Very well said.. I needed that. Thanks for blogging

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3/24/2006 1:38 am

When I find out I will tell ya!

rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
3/24/2006 4:54 am

I'm not sure where it comes from, but I sure wish it would find me again

firestarter665 42M/39F

3/24/2006 6:11 am

SR- I am currently at the size that I was when my husband and I got married, but yet still feel like I have a long way to go. Women are very emotional creatures, so it may be possible that your wife is going through one of these phases.

Sassy- I think those two work hand in hand with each other.

MRSMUFFLAND- I'm glad you enjoyed it. Thank you for commenting!

amberabercrombie- I agree. Although alcohol does bring a certian factor to sexuality.


cru1972- I hope it does find you.

PassionKisses4Me 44F

3/24/2006 7:38 am

I so again...definitly confidence within myself...and the alcohol does lower those inhibitions hehehehe


firestarter665 42M/39F

3/24/2006 8:51 am

Becky- Come on over for a drink.

libgemOH 56M/52F

3/24/2006 2:01 pm

I don't know where mine comes from but I'm soooo horny right now, you all better run for your lives! -B

firestarter665 42M/39F

3/24/2006 3:35 pm

libgem- UhOh, time to break out the Rabitt.

MrNuttz05 49M

3/30/2006 4:45 pm

That wasn't your husband... He went out for that beer...
It was ME under those sheets, momma

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