How To Get Into Someone's Pants  

firestarter665 42M/39F
3158 posts
6/27/2006 4:25 pm

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6/29/2006 7:34 pm

How To Get Into Someone's Pants

So to speak really.

I am talking about the first e mail situation. To give you a little history here, Mr. Fire and I started out here just looking at profiles and e mailing people. We would send out e mails to some and state who we are, what we like to do, and what we had planned to get out of this site. Needless to say, we really did not get any responses. I think we had gotten two responses back and eventually met these people for dinner.

The e mails we get from people are pretty funny. They are the "one liners". You know the ones, "Let's get to know each other", "Call me", and so on. Mr. Fire and I really don't repond to these. We both feel that there should be an effort put into that first e mail that would make us want to get to know you better.

So my question is:
What kind of "first e mai" would you respond to? What would the e mail say that would make you get to know someone more?

abitcrazy4sex 45M
1335 posts
6/27/2006 5:27 pm

i think alot depends on whether you are a male/female/couple etc.. for myself i dont mind if a lady emails me and just says can i see a picture because she is a standard member and wants to see a full size image , i go along however i *know* if i send an email to a lady and only ask her for a picture , or "insert your one liner here" then 99.9% of the time she wont even think about responding back let alone send a pic.

firestarter665 replies on 6/28/2006 10:28 am:
I guess it is different for different people depending on your situation.

LitisHoldsDeeds 41M
7 posts
6/27/2006 5:45 pm

I am new here, I had learned so far that the amount of "fake" females profiles here is incredible. Is really fustrating when you compose a thoughfull one paragraph (or more) e-mail to get a form replay- if you get anything back, that is- Obvioully a scam to go see pay webcams.
Trust me you can only spend so much energy, after the 20 "thougfull" e-mail you start sending "one liners"

firestarter665 replies on 6/28/2006 10:29 am:
I am an optimist and think that all e mails should have an effort put into them. But that's just me.

caressmewell 53F

6/27/2006 5:55 pm

I have responded to some very funny and a few very well written emails. Unfortunately most of the emails I get are the one liner emails.

firestarter665 replies on 6/28/2006 10:29 am:
I would have never thought that you would get the one liners.


6/27/2006 6:41 pm

I don't get much mail since we are not looking.. jokes.. compliments.. oh yes.. you won't believe this..

shhhhhhhhhh this guy sent a pic of his dick

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firestarter665 replies on 6/28/2006 10:30 am:
LOL I should send you a pic of my boobs.

digdug41 49M

6/28/2006 3:08 am

I really couldn't tell ya coz I dont get mail, at least not as far as hooking up, and I dont write many looking for anything myself but very interesting question

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

firestarter665 replies on 6/28/2006 10:31 am:
I am glad that my question sparked your interest.

rm_rlandma 41M/40F
476 posts
6/28/2006 5:34 am

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just might catch my attention ...some.

firestarter665 replies on 6/28/2006 10:32 am:
Well that did catch my attention only because I had to read so far over in the page.

mycin62 54F

6/28/2006 5:52 am

Something funny, original, intelligent and whitty. Definately NOT a one liner.

firestarter665 replies on 6/28/2006 10:32 am:
That is exactly what I would want in an e mail.

pragmaticCTcpl 61M/50F

6/28/2006 6:32 am

I like intelligent well thought out e-mails. They send "Nice pics" or "Want help sucking that cock?"....they get a " No thanks, not interested."

firestarter665 replies on 6/28/2006 10:33 am:
At least you respond back to them. I wouldn't even do that.

(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)

6/28/2006 9:17 am

Someone who shows they know how to use the spell check for starters....Ready


firestarter665 replies on 6/29/2006 7:35 pm:
That helps.

libgemOH 56M/52F

6/28/2006 10:16 am

and so if I sent you an email saying "I wanna lick you all over" you'd ignore me too??? -B {=}

firestarter665 replies on 6/28/2006 10:34 am:
Hell no I wouldn't ignore you. But then again that wouldn't be your first e mail to me either.

tracy_de_lacy 105F
9268 posts
6/28/2006 12:49 pm

I am the same as you. I never answer one liners. I state clearly that I am just here to have a laugh in my group and to blog. I say i have a boyfriend and I am happy with that, hell I even blog about him. So when they write to me that they want to get to know me better or ask if I would like to chat on msn then I know they ain't read my profile.

I consider it rude of them to mail me when they haven't even took the time to read the profile. So much for wanting to get to know me better huh!

Bye everyone, it was a blast

firestarter665 replies on 6/29/2006 7:36 pm:
Well that is just like the "single men" thing with me. In my profile it states in bold print No single men. Who would have thought so many men can't read.

rm_sidekick054 62M
5 posts
6/28/2006 3:07 pm

I've been here about 2 weeks and recieved lots of e-mail replys on interested on meeting. I responded to all of them trying to set up a meeting of their convience. I never heard from them again! They keep checking out my profile but that is as far as it goes.
What's wrong with these people! I came to this site as a last resort, not to pass the time.

firestarter665 replies on 6/29/2006 7:38 pm:
Some people are truly scared when they get a response back. Almost like they are here for fantasy not reality. I bet if you start up a blog you will find many more of the real people are here.

CongaFelixRubes 54M  
1223 posts
6/29/2006 12:07 pm

I think if you are really interested in a person or persons you will make the effort and write an sincere email to them. Those one liners are people that are trying to contact as many people as they can with out caring who they are emailing.

firestarter665 replies on 6/29/2006 7:38 pm:
Very true.

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