And For The Lady?  

fingerlickin_69 42M
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7/11/2006 9:11 am

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7/17/2006 9:37 pm

And For The Lady?

As Moderator for the Herpes Dating Grp of Chicago, I am trying to find ways to make the Group more accessible to AdultFriendFinder members, in particular for women. I know how this site works, the guys outnumber the girls by a ratio somewhere in the ballpark of 9,482 to 1; but it seems unfortunate that some groups are interest-specific, but still have the appearance of a "meat market" or a "sausage-fest." With groups being such a good opportunity to get to know people with similar tastes and goals, without the pressure of coming up with that perfect personal introduction, I would think that many people would be interested in the opportunity to not have to weed out dozens, if not hundreds, of emails from random members. Not to mention the lessened possibility that a person with whom you make contact is just an email collector. I pose this question to all members, whether they are looking at Herpes groups or ones for other interests or geographic areas.

Do you think that interacting with people in an AdultFriendFinder group increases your chances of meeting someone with whom you are compatible?
Heck yeah! I'm already a member of so many groups, I can't keep track.
Sounds like a great idea! Why didn't I join one before?
I'm afraid I'll make too many friends, and not be attracted to anyone.
I just think I do better with only one-on-one interaction.
I'm shy, and it took a lot for me to join AFF, let alone a group.
I'm so hot and gifted, a group would only bring me down.
I feel I can't compete with those already in a group.
Only if there were a group for 32-year old lawyers in Chicago with herpes.


cookiequeen1000 53F

7/11/2006 5:14 pm

First of all, I like the change of Blog Title - very cute!

Now, how are you getting your group to grow? Mine is gaining members in very tiny baby steps (I'm very impatient sometimes - want what I want, when I want it & life doesn't work that way). have a hard time getting people to post anything. What are you doing that's working. Enlighten me oh great legal one (kneels and bows as the King of Siam commanded in the movie).


fingerlickin_69 replies on 7/11/2006 9:31 pm:
Heh heh, I wish I could take credit for it. I think all the growth happened just by virture of being in a bigger city before I took over. Although maybe if I declare myself the Group Emperor, I'll have you kneeling in front of me more often...lol (like the sound of that!) I promise if I have any ideas, I'll do what I can to help you get what you want, when you want it

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