no need to get nasty and rude...  

finelady4_44 56F
421 posts
6/24/2005 8:00 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

no need to get nasty and rude...

He started messaging me months ago. We had talked briefly while he was still married, and I was sure we were seeking different things so we stopped talking.

This time around, he is no longer married, and a woman would have to be blind not to lust for him.. tall and incredibly handsome, dazzling pics.

He would message me very sporadically, never showing a keen interest, never any lengthy conversations, and I was sure he was talking to many other women, which is cool, but let me know he was not too serious.

I told him I wanted to explore my lust for him. He was not terribly enthusiastic, but perhaps he is always so laid back.
After this conversation, I was contacted by an ex who wanted to try things on more time. I let my new friend know this.

Things with the ex could not be patched. I decided to go ahead and look into meeting some people here who had emailed me.

I blogged about my excitement about meeting new people. Out of nowhere he messages me and gets all rude because he read my blog and sees Im dating. Now, I ask you, is this not a tad melodramatic for a man I never even met and showed minimal interest in me?

Im sorry, but theres no excuse for rudeness. And as for me I prefer a man that knows how to communicate with me that he desires me to one that is unable to. Now Im glad I never met him, Im sure we would not have clicked.


rm_bella_ 47F
4030 posts
6/25/2005 12:16 am

It is strange, sometimes the smallest things give us a clue into a person. But now at least you know...no time wasted.


rm_arcangel7459 50M

6/26/2005 12:08 pm

Sounds to me like the rude one was was a tad "jealous" because you were seeing other people. That's wrong in my book.

You cannot get jealous because someone is going out casually with others, especially if you haven't met them in person yet.

He assumed too much, I think.


UteroCrewsSaber 53M
37 posts
7/6/2005 8:07 am

Well to me it sounds like he wanted you all to himself,or another notch under his belt,he was thinking nobody was talking with you but when he saw you are dating for real and not just sitting at some screen with your tits hanging out then he got really mad that FUCKING LOSSER yea baby FUCK HIM and move on don't cry over nothing that never happened. oh yea and your girl MSHONYHOLE is just like you with the flashing around the right people if that was me she would be sucking on the soul pole LMAO.


bbw33sable 46F

7/17/2005 6:58 pm

omg..i think we are living the same life....Last night even that happened to me..i've ignored him ..he changes screen names..it's like my own little internet stalker. Most people would get the hint when i quit talking after a few days...he must be some kind of freak. The guy in net drama..i had talked to for almost a year..we live 20 minutes apart....and have never met and he pulls that same shit. then there was another..who we had talked to for about 7 months..said he was single, blah, blah, and well it turned up he was married...and i actually cried..MY MISTAKE..i will never let another man make me feel that way again..especially one i meet on the net.


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