a sabbatical of sorts  

finelady4_44 56F
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7/28/2005 8:40 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

a sabbatical of sorts

I have been on somewhat of a sabbatical. Although I still receive a great deal of mail with inviting propositions, I have been enjoying ME time. I am not feeling any hurry to start seeing someone, although I have enjoyed chatting with some people that I may eventually meet. I am getting to know myself again, learning that I cant determine my value based on others perception of me, I have to find my own self worth. I have learned that if I have to show my naked breast to a man to generate interest in me, then he is not a man I will want to spend time with, and I must have self esteem issues.
I am no longer on the hunt per say for a lover, I have decided that the man for me, will find ME. Meanwhile I'm doing just fine alone, enjoying simple pleasures, and ME time.

I realize in order to have a successful relationship, I have to be happy with myself, I can not be hoping someone else will make that happen.

Happy Blogging everyone!

Niceguymark4949 46

7/29/2005 1:13 pm

I think the best time to find someone is when your not looking anymore. Its important to be happy with yourself no matter what the situation. Me I'm happy happy happy, but I'd still like it if you sat on my lap

FriendlyTickler 45M

7/29/2005 2:34 pm

It's with time and experience that we truly learn who and what we are. Once there, it is important to except those things that you can not change and to realize that those qualities are what make us who we are and more importantly making us each our own individual. Some people spend their entire lives hiding in one form or another because they lack the self confidence or self love to move on.

But you my dear do not appear to be lacking in self confidence. I don't find that you are desperate in your writings. You only seem a little impatient. Why hurry? This is your time to do what you want and at your convenience. What a wonderful place to be in life, don't you agree?

As for the boob thing, yes if you show us your boobs of course we think of sex and certainly not art. While they are an attractive feature of your body, you evidently have more to offer then just that. Everything that you wrote flows and makes sense. Good thoughts and a good self relization all transfered into writing. You're obviously no dummy.

Be patient, good things come to those who wait. Don't be in a hurry!

TheDodger8 45M

7/30/2005 8:44 pm

hmm... sounds like you kind of found yourself... I hope I do one day.

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