I want to hear from the ladies....  

finelady4_44 56F
421 posts
1/1/2006 11:58 am

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6/6/2006 3:47 pm

I want to hear from the ladies....

Ok so J blew me off for first date, and T who has been trying to get me to meet and I chatted with today, tells me he wants to meet and wants to pleasure me, but if "______" calls him he will run to have sex with her in a heartbeat... What the hell?

How would that make you ladies feel? It makes me feel like Im a substitute, Im 2nd choice.

My solution to this day? Im meeting an old lover for an afternoon of pleasure. He never plays head games, he always makes me feel like 100% woman, and he has so patiently been waiting for me to come back to him.

Living well is the best revenge. Real men dont lie and fuck with your head ,and real men treat a woman like she has value, not like she is just pussy.

I gotta get off this site, too much pain, not enough pleasure.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/1/2006 1:23 pm

LOL... I know exactly what you mean. Part of the reason I hadn't been online in the AdultFriendFinder world for a while. Too much of the games and desire for one thing only and forget about who we are as women - loving, caring, nurturing selves.

Those that play the head games know not what they are missing out on, huh??? If they only knew.... Trouble is my love for sex has me taking glimpses into AdultFriendFinder to see if I can get the best of both worlds.

In the meantime, I hope your meeting the old lover is all that you wish and hope it will be. Sometimes old lovers are old for a reason.

Hold on to your dreams and desires and the right one will come along whether it be here on AdultFriendFinder or otherwise.


caressmewell 53F

1/1/2006 2:19 pm

You need to tell both of them to f*** off. Men that genuinely like/love women don't treat them with the disrespect that J & T have shown you. They don't play these kind of games.


1/4/2006 8:12 pm

My two cents. Never beg or wait, I am amazed thatevery woman in the world hasn't realized they rule the world (and our minds,penises, and hearts). A sext woman like yourself should have a handful of men, one for each day waiting to service you. Goood luck with men, a lot of us are clueless.

AughtMusedSpill 48M

1/6/2006 10:13 am

So let me see if I get this correct...you don't want to be the 2nd choice, you want to be the exclusive object of desire, yet you go running back to your old lover for a fuck? And that's different than what you're complaining about how?

passion8_lady 57F

1/6/2006 3:45 pm

I've said it before... AdultFriendFinder is NOT the place to look for true love. If I was single and looking for that special person, it certainly wouldn't be here...

LiquidGold2006 61F

1/10/2006 11:23 am

Dear Fine,

Unfortunately AdultFriendFinder is like a candy store to most men, they line their pockets with as many delights as possible, always eyeing the rest of the counter for the next time through. Perhaps men do this so they do not get emotionally close to someone and merely indulge in pure sex for sex's sake.

Most women do not approach things in this way, hoping to find one gentleman to grow with, learn from, celebrate.

But know that life is good, the sun still shines, the river still flows. And there is love and passion to be found.

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