Does there have to be a connection for two people the first time?  

fiestygirl72 44F
40 posts
8/21/2005 7:16 pm

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Does there have to be a connection for two people the first time?

I believe so, if there isn't any kind of chemistry then why be with someone, I couldn't do that with someone. Whether it be physical or good conversation and you just hit it off or have some sort of spark. If it's not there then what's the point, I can't just have sex with someone without getting to know them, but if it clicks then go for it. I don't know how everyone else feels but that's just me.

DallasPhallus56 60M

8/22/2005 5:52 am

Romance and foreplay are still part of the game, especially if I want the girl to come back a second time. Sometimes it's not the bath and champage, just lots of kissing, more than she expects, before I even try to undress her. But it does depend upon the situation. On the (now rare) occasions when my friend Beth comes over, she is here, not to make love, but to get fucked, as she puts it. That's unusual, though. Even with the most eager woman, I generally touch and kiss and massage before getting down to sex.

rm_luke69iner 48M
3275 posts
8/22/2005 12:08 pm

Definetly has to be chemistry for me ... Otherwise it's just a booty call, which is fine for some but is too hollow for me.

Good post Fiesty ... Keep blogging.


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