I so wish that was my ex  

fiery_one06 35F
56 posts
3/9/2006 2:29 pm

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3/11/2006 6:22 am

I so wish that was my ex

I know it’s been a while since I last wrote but hey this chicks been busy. I didn’t want to bore everyone with my baby daddy drama but it can’t be avoided right now I need to bitch. I wish I could just kick that man in the sack! He gets under my skin like no one else can. I think that he makes it his mission to piss me off on a daily basis
So here is my on going battle with the ASS.

He gives me just enough money for day care right now which we are getting a big time break on. The problem is now that our day care provider wants to stop watching the boys since she is having another baby so we have to find a new one. Normal day care for two is $200 dollars a week we pay $160 a week. Joe gives me the $160 I turn around and pay day care with it. Now that we are looking for new providers he has come up with a friend of his who’s wife is willing to watch the boys but the catch is she would be doing this under the table. Well folks that just goes and fucks with my financial aid. I have to claim that money if I do it looks like I make double what I really do a month. Joe can’t seem to understand that by me going to school and getting an education it puts more money in his pocket after the two years its going to take me to finish school. His words to me and I quote” you should wait and go to school. Find a better job that pays you more and go to school at night. You are being selfish as always and putting what T____ wants ahead of your boys.”

Could someone please explain to me how someone could have their head so far up their own ass they can’t see that this is what’s best for the boys. I become financially independent and set a great example for my kids. He gets a hell of a lot more money in his pocket every month. I for one would think its something he would be all for. He pays $1,200 dollars a month in child support. Yup folks the man has another child that he pays through the nose for. Yeah I know I married a winner! Not saying that having children by different people is wrong but when you are in denial about being their parent then I think you’re a bit of loser. HE swore up and down that she wasn’t his kid well DNA doesn’t lie buddy.

Thank god I am going out tonight. I have no idea how I am going to get along with this man for the next 16 years.

49AK 55M
1823 posts
3/9/2006 3:16 pm

I am never surprised at the insensitivity of people... and that is unfortunate.

fiery_one06 35F

3/9/2006 5:00 pm

yeah well I should have seen his true colors BEFORE we got married. He is doing to me what he did to his daughters mother. I actually thought that because we where married that some how it would be different guess not.

AdventureBeckons 43M
145 posts
3/11/2006 12:24 am

Is he legally obligated to pay you? If so, you have leverage to make him pay it regardless of the care provider you choose.

Do what is right for you and your child. Fuck him. (And I don't mean actually doin' it!)

fiery_one06 35F

3/11/2006 6:22 am

Oh he is legally obligated to pay but he likes to make a point of telling me that I should look at the day cares that are over the $160.I cant afford to pay the extra $40 a week and he knows that.

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