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fieldsofdaisy 41F
1343 posts
7/6/2006 1:58 pm

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Word of the Day

Oversexed: adj: characterized by an inordinate degree of sexual drive or interest.

Which is a perfect segue for my next thought...

I need to get something off my chest. (Minds out of the gutter, please! Wait. What am I saying?? Dive! Dive!)

This will probably be the closest thing to a rant that I will ever put on here, so enjoy...

Sometimes, you boys drive me up a wall. You all talk and talk about how much you want sex, and how you would love to find a woman that can keep up with you. One that wants it as much, if not more, than you.

Well, I'm here to tell you that while you might want this for a short time, you do NOT want this long term. The shininess of that toy wears off awfully quickly. (As would any toy that is played with that often, no?) And, then she's the one pestering you for sex, and you're the one with a headache, or not in the mood, or just leave me the fuck alone already!!!!

Then, what are us poor, oversexed gals supposed to do?

I guess it all leads back to the old saying... Be careful what you wish for. You just might get it.


Note: My information is gathered from both external sources, as well as personal experience. So, my data is not skewed. It is a pure sample, and my results are accurate. In other words, don't argue with me! You WON'T win...

rm_mainevern 51M
10197 posts
7/6/2006 3:51 pm

That's because you women get old and fat and start wearing Mary Kay makeup applied with a trowel!

One morning of waking up next to a woman in face mask will scar most men for life!

Hehehehehehehe, kidding )

I Wanna Pull Purpletrashcan's Fucking Hair!

loadeddice05 44M

7/6/2006 10:47 pm

I could most likely win and argument!!! But I don't want a woman who can keep up with me!!! LOL!! Just one who'll bend over when I tell her!!!!

Looking0100 54M

7/7/2006 5:17 pm


I believe you and your statistics. I have never doubted you.

However, not all men fit that stereotypical person you describe. I want a woman, sure. And I want sex, of course. But, I am very much into a single-woman relationship. When I find one woman, she will be the one for me. I will love her forever (no doubt) and continue to want her as long as is literally possible.

Unlike lots of men (all that you and your friends seem to have ever met), I do not look ONLY at physical beauty. That is only the first step. Actually, I would date an unattractive woman just as easily. The most important thing to me is inner beauty. When a woman can show me she has inner beauty, then I will be attracted to her without question. And, as far as your response to loaded is concerned, I feel very differently than he. I do not want a woman to be my doormat. I also do not want to be a woman's doormat. I want an equal woman, one who will give me some of her time while taking some of mine. She will share with me and I will share with her, on more-or-less equal terms. I do not expect things to be perfect, or perfectly equal. But, I do expect she and I will do our share of everything. We will take care of each other and love each other completely. There will be no force or coercion on my part. And I will be supportive of my girlfriend or wife in doing her own things, whatever they are. We all have things that we want to do alone.

I am not questioning your logic here or even your perception. You have your viewpoint. I just do not fit the stereotype. I am so very different from any other men. And I am also a virgin. How many 43 year old virgins do you know? And how many virgins (any age) do yo know are more interested in a life-long relatinship, than in sex?

rm_agathon12 46M
1311 posts
7/7/2006 6:43 pm

Oooo...you had to roll the grenade into the crowded room...

rm_mainevern 51M
10197 posts
7/7/2006 7:31 pm

"mainevern, are you questioning my sample group?? I promise that all of the women used to develop my statistics were women that you would give your left nut just to brush up against. "

Uh huh, sure . I bet they all went to the Tammy Faye Baker School of Beauty . Hehehehehehehe.

I Wanna Pull Purpletrashcan's Fucking Hair!

loadeddice05 44M

7/7/2006 9:08 pm

    Quoting fieldsofdaisy:
    mainevern, are you questioning my sample group?? I promise that all of the women used to develop my statistics were women that you would give your left nut just to brush up against. The data remains pure.

    loaded, nope. you won't win this one. promise. you could try though? and what you request is either a doormat, or a woman with the kind of sex drive that would make her willing and enthusiastic to bend over on command. Now, knowing you, you couldn't possibly want a doormat... you need a woman to challenge you. And, that argument? When I win, what do I get??
LOL!! You will never know cause you'll never win!! LOL!!!!!!!

rm_mainevern 51M
10197 posts
7/7/2006 11:28 pm

    Quoting fieldsofdaisy:
    You found me out, mainevern! You sleuth, you! You master of deductive reasoning! I am, in fact, 700lbs, and they move me about with a crane. The Mary Kay truck backs up here every two days or so for my usual spackling. I guess I've been outted, haven't I?
Isn't that an attractive picture, now I've got to go to bed with that in my mind. That will give me worse nightmares than eating leftover peanut butter, onion, and liverwurst pizza before going to bed .

I Wanna Pull Purpletrashcan's Fucking Hair!

rm_LassenView 48M
3 posts
7/8/2006 1:35 pm

Hmmm, I think the logic is faulty. Are you saying that a man never becomes an unshiny toy, but only women do? Are you saying that men have a shorter attention span and a more wondering eye than the fairer sex? I'm almost insulted by the thought........ Lassenview scratches his head and wonders if thats the reason there are way more men than women on this site.....It just can't be that men are that visible and consistent with their subpar actions. See ya.

Looking0100 54M

7/8/2006 1:46 pm

You know what I just thought? You have shared some things about yourself without ever sharing those intimate, personal details. That is okay. I am not asking anything here.

I realize that I like you as a friend, very much so. Your keeping stuff hidden just makes me want you even more. Keep hiding and I will keep wanting.

I haven't see what you look like. But, I believe that it doesn't matter at all. I have seen your inner beauty and it shines!

VenusDiaries 62M
867 posts
7/13/2006 1:49 pm

I just need a first mate, second mate and a third mate on my ship and I'll not get tired of their toys and I'll have variety and they don't have to keep up with me, they can always do each other as well.

rm_mainevern 51M
10197 posts
7/13/2006 2:46 pm

    Quoting fieldsofdaisy:
    mainevern, I hope you had sweet dreams!

    Lassen, Men?? Obvious and predictable?? Perish the very thought!!
For some reason I kept dreaming about the Joker from Batman

I Wanna Pull Purpletrashcan's Fucking Hair!

Steel_Legs 58M/F

7/16/2006 3:09 am

I've been in long term relationships with both extremes, I want more than she does, she wants more than I do. I think it's unrealistic to believe that your partner is going to be the same as you in any single aspect of personality, emotions, cuisine, and yes, even sexuality.

Having read several of your posts, it occurs to me that you are much too bright to honestly believe what you claim is a fact. I think you're pulling our collective legs here, and while I have not stooped to this low a level to "incite" comments, that is only because I hadn't thought of it before. Kudos to you!

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