You can't always get what you want....  

ferndalebiguy3 55M
10 posts
6/15/2005 2:22 pm

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You can't always get what you want....

Yes the lyrics from the classic Rolling Stones song "You can't always get what you want, but sometime you get what you need" I have found that to be true as far as sex goes. I can't count how many times I have set up a meet with someone and had in my head how everything was going to go. Then after meeting it was so much diffrent than I had imagined, but in the end I still enjoyed myself. I met with a couple and I had in my head the idea that the wife and I were going to take turns sucking the husband. The reality was the wife watched and played with herself while watching me and the husband suck each other then while the husband was fucking his wife he had me fuck him. Diffrent than what I had imagined, but it was still a great experiance non the less. I have also had this true with people who were looking for particular features such as 'good looking' or 'well endowed' and I was not, how should I say there first choice but in the end they had a wonderful time. So now I try to leave myself completely open to new ideas, people and methods of erotic play. So each new meeting is a wonderful new surprise.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/15/2005 3:08 pm

That's the way it should be. I go to each first meet with absolutely no expectations, excepting with the hope to at least meet one more friend. If the chemistry is there then let the games begin....

I don't want to be anyone's one night stand just for the frill of it...

anyhow... Here's to more wonderful new surprises off the unbeaten pathway!!!

mnfun952 102M

6/15/2005 3:43 pm

expectations usually end in disappointment... expect nothing and be comletely surprised and delighted when something wonderful happens!! (it's a little known secret to happiness).

Enjoy the day,


rm_jayR63 59F
1884 posts
6/15/2005 5:11 pm

I learned long ago not to "over-expect".
like when you've been thinking about having a wendy's hamburger for so long then finally decide to splurge on the calories and have one and it just wasn't as good as you had built it up in your mind to be.
I can only relate this to food, since sex is a distant memory

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