What do you want from life? (or sex for that matter..)  

ferndalebiguy3 55M
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10/30/2005 3:07 am

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What do you want from life? (or sex for that matter..)


As I have gotten older I realize there are three distinct type of people. Those that are outgoing, sure of themselves and know what they want. Some who are shy and passive and want to be told want they want. The third group that fall somewhere in between and may or may not know what they want but don't act or say so. Even though I consider myself somewhat shy I usually put myself in the first category because 90 percent of the time I know what I want sexually. The problem I find is meeting a lot of people who fall into the third category and trying to get them to say what they want sexually is like pulling teeth. One guy who contacted me took 4 emails before I could finally figure out what he like to do in bed. Most people I come in contact with I ask what they like, what would be a ideal sexual encounter for them. For me this does two things, first it let's me know if i am going to be compatible with them and second it helps me if do every meet to make that meeting a pleasure filled one for them. I do realize that not everyone knows what they want 100 percent of the time, I know I don't. So for those times it can be fun to explore and try new things. Having a good starting point really helps though. So if you contact me or I contact you with the thought of meeting, please have a idea what you would want to do with me when we do. I know I will be thinking about it.

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