Some of my rambelings  

ferndalebiguy3 55M
10 posts
6/12/2005 9:05 am

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Some of my rambelings


Well I decided to start my blog here after I had a account on another service that I cancelled. It's kind of funny when you read through some of the profiles that you have couples looking for a man and they have that they must be single. Now I can understand that they don't want to get caught up in a nasty mess if the guy is cheating on his wife and she finds out. But there are others out there like myself who have a open relationship where there wife knows about there sexual relationships outside of there primary relationship but doesn't join in or has sexual relationships of her own. So I can respect others wishes and wants, but since this is a sex and swingers site without even chatting with some of us married guys you may be passing up a wonderful experience.

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
6/12/2005 11:43 am

This may sound hypocritical coming from a married woman who does no such thing herself, but you really should elaborate on your marital status in your profile if that is the case, as I'm sure you would not be passed over then -- or just state it upfront in your first message you send someone. I don't have to do this, cos most men don't really seem to care about whether I'm cheating or not, but I also pass over married men who do not explain in their profile that they are not cheating. Maybe we should tell AdultFriendFinder to add a category "open relationship". I've been on other sites where they have this option.



[blog freelove999]


ferndalebiguy3 55M

6/13/2005 2:28 pm

Hi Freelove999, I do have that I am married in my profile and I do make sure that I tell anyone I potentialy may meet that I am married, I am in a open relationship and not looking for a relationship outside of sex. You do have a good idea though in AdultFriendFinder should add a open relationship category that persons could select from. Thanks for taking the time to read my blog and for your nice comment.


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