Being stood up...  

ferndalebiguy3 55M
10 posts
6/16/2005 2:51 pm

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Being stood up...

It has probably happened to all of us, you have chatted with someone online, sent a few emails back and forth and after you found them intresting you set up a meeting. The day and time arrives and you are there but the person you where supposed to meet never shows. If your lucky you get a email a day latter saying something came up and they couldn't make it. If not you never hear from them again. I have had this happen to me on many occasions a few were I had driven over a hour to get there. I was mad, upset and told myself that's it, I am not doing this again. Then a few weeks or months later it happens again. I know sometimes things come up at the last minute and you have to cancel plans. I have had to do it a few times, but I make sure to get ahold of who I was supposed to meet asap and appoligize for being able to make it and offter to make it up to them. Unfortuneatly there are those out there who don't care enough to even write back and say the lost intrest. I can't imagine how much worse it could feel to someone who is single and looking for a companion more than sex. I guess there will always be courtous people and those that are not. As for myself I just don't set up long distance meetings anymore and don't worry about the rest.

istrife 42M

6/17/2005 4:38 pm

You know, this relates to what I was blogging about earlier today. I think, as amazing as it is to me, that I lot of people who join this site are not actually looking for sex. Some people just want to feel desired, attractive, hung, or needed. Maybe they want those feelings, but when it comes down to it they just want to stay away from the potential problems and feelings they may experience by actually having the sex. I can't say that is why I'm here, but inthe past, I have masturbated about fantasies, thinking..."YES, I'm going to actually do this fantasy this time"...then I orgasm and decide that it's much safer emotionally to just stay home. Anywho, I am a bit concerned about being stood up, and while I am excited about some recent responses I've gotten, I'm going to be guardedly optimistic. Good luck to you and to us both!

Become a member to create a blog