Rude People!!  

femme872 29F
363 posts
10/4/2005 9:49 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Rude People!!

Have u ever encountered a situation where u just meet someone on AdultFriendFinder and everything goes well. Hes/Shes perfect and u are both comfortable to take things to the next level.
The day comes where you both have mind blowing orgasms and everythings still going great. You would love to see him/her again. And then it happens. He/She just leaves u there on the bed while he/she takes a shower without a word said. Your wondering what the hell hes unhappy about. After he/she comes out of the shower, its like your both strangers. When that happens, i get so pissed off. Its so rude cos u make the other person feel like they're there to service you. Which is not how it should be.

Well all of the above has happened to me and even though the sex was mind blowing, i didnt want to see him again.

Have you had encounters with such rude people? Do you still see them?


Noob_of_the_year 29M

10/4/2005 11:37 pm

Perhaps the guy wasn't in for a long term relationship, so the idea of a one night stand may seem prefectly alright with him. He has overlooked the fact that being humans too we have feelings and if i were you, i would have told him right in the face, who the hell do you thing you are? The next time you meet such a person perhaps you should slap him and ask him for some "service charge".


rm_JustAgUy9992 32M
7 posts
10/5/2005 1:35 am

=D no comments o.O.... Sometimes shit happen -_-


dasher121 36M

10/5/2005 8:13 am

That's really shitty. Out for relationship or not, just got on a very intimate level with someone. Some conversation wouldnt kill you. I guess some people are just idiots lol. Never had that happen and never did that to someone. Thats low budget!


mr_simply_me 45M
842 posts
10/5/2005 11:46 am

Frankly... Nope... Have not met anyone here yet So cannot say much.

I guess.. the key here is that don't jump to bed too fast if you want some close friendship...

Actually... I think it might be weird after sex to talk to an acquaintance as both are not "drunk" anymore...

Anyway... learn about a person before going the extra mile..... I gues "he" does not know how to cuddle a lady after making love and have short and fun chats....

I guess u know what type of people u like to be with later... Don't take it too hard lar... Enjoy... life


YourEroticMan 41M
4 posts
10/6/2005 7:56 am

femme872,it's really an unpleasant encounter,i must say it's atrocious.however what's past is past,just simmer down and forget it.what's more not all the people are like that.life's still go on,why not make acquaintainces with new friends,may be this time you might have a bed of roses,perhaps having unforgettable pleasant,exciting funs


eternal1969 47M
1634 posts
10/6/2005 9:19 am

Welcome to the real world girl.
Sex is just sex. Physical attraction + overflowing hormones.
Thats what you get when you connect just on a physical level.
If you want to make love and feel loved, then the connection has to be on an emotional plane with chemistry and all. When that happens, sex is an expression of love and nobody leaves the bed to shower off the moment. Instead you want to cuddle together in bed, wet , sweaty and all


femme872 29F

10/6/2005 4:28 pm

eternal1969
I disagree. There are people not in love who do cuddle. I have met some of them . So then having to be in love to cuddle becomes a lousy excuse.


goodtry 55M
918 posts
10/7/2005 12:28 am

Well I agree it cannot be he has no feeling since u said that u had great sex with mind blowing orgasms.

However I think this guy just want a ONS kind and don't wish that u will stay on with him.

If this is the case then he will not care whether u will want to see him any more or not.


WetDream1971 46M
12 posts
10/7/2005 5:51 pm

Nope - never had those things happen to me and I definitely don't do that too - that's just cheap!


WetDream1971 46M
12 posts
10/8/2005 7:47 pm

And I agree with you that cuddling is a nice thing esp after a very sex. But I guess it all depends on the availability of time. I do personally think that great sex is also about great foreplay and the actual act itself, in addition to cuddling - ie, the whole nine yards.


rm_RIGA33 50M
5 posts
10/11/2005 6:06 am

HONEY, IF I JUST HAD MIND BLOWING SEX WITH YOU, WITCH I'M SURE IT WOULD BE ,I DEFINATALLY WOULD NOT BE GIVING YOU THE COLD SHOULDER OR RUDE BRUSH OFF!!! AND I'D DEFINATALLY LOVE TO GO BIKING WITH YOU TO FULFILL SOME OUT OF THE BEDROOM FANTISIES!!!


TechSteve 49M

10/12/2005 1:18 pm

Femme, I commented in your rant in the rants and raves.

I love cuddling and holding my partner. I do agree with you it has nothing to do with whether you love them or not.

There are so many guys on this site that care about getting themselves satisfied and to hell with the partner. Some ladies on this site put up with it.

Dont put up with it.


femme872 29F

10/13/2005 4:42 am

Thank you so much steve. Finally, a guy with a heart.


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