Should I write him or shouldn't I?  

femalesquirter 44F
256 posts
3/29/2006 3:22 pm

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Should I write him or shouldn't I?

I met a great guy a couple of months ago. We were planning to meet again but unfortunately, something came up on the day we were going to meet. He then had to leave town. He called me once. I returned his call but he didn't answer. Yes, I left a message but he didn't call back. So people, should I call him again or what? Don't forget, this was a couple of months ago. Please leave a brief feedback on either answer you choose.
Call him
Don't call him
Email him
Don't email him

Lyoness 43F
689 posts
3/29/2006 4:06 pm

I am all for calling once you are in it. But for now, seems like he is too busy to make time for you. do you really want to be jumping up and down saying notice me, notice me?

Sorry but i say stay away.

HotTXpussy4U 48F

3/29/2006 4:18 pm

I Say.. Do Not Call's been months!!! If he can't show you at least the courtesy of a return phone call.... RED FLAG. Now I know my blogs will show I'm skeptical of most men.....but I would never chase one down...that's suppose to be HIS job! Smiles - HotTx {=}

rm_archjes 32M
5 posts
3/29/2006 4:45 pm

I say you need to make one more attempt to contact him, e-mail is risky because if he's been really busy he may not even check his mail...I have gone weeks without checking mine for this reason. I think you should call him one more time. I don't think calling 2 times is desperate or anything like that, and if he's as great a guy as you think he is then he won't be put off by it either. If it's a cell phone I don't think you have to leave another message cus he'll see that you called, but if it's a home phone then you may want to.

And if he doesn't return your call then and your ego gets hurt then feel free to call me and I'll build it right back up

milliondolrbaby 47M
12 posts
3/30/2006 9:49 am

Forget him but meet me instead LOL

QuiteAGoodHandle 51M

3/31/2006 2:53 am

My advice is, if you like him, call him and email him. Maybe he's had a problem with his phone.

It would seem a shame that "two ships passing in the night would miss each other due to fog".

Its not as if you have been chasing after him.

best of luck,


milliondolrbaby 47M
12 posts
3/31/2006 3:59 pm

I apologise for being cheeky in my ealier response. I totally agree with QuiteAGoodHandle. It would be a shame that 2 ships passed each other because of fog. Maybe the guy did not get your return phone call and did not pursue you because he thought you weren't interested. The fact that he even called you after you've met proved that he liked you. You should at least call just to get to the botton of this.

YogisSylphCleat 56M
17 posts
4/2/2006 1:44 pm

If there seemed to be a connection, I would try to contact him one more time. Life is too short to miss any opportunity to share something truly special with someone. Maybe he feels bad because he didn't (or couldn't) return your call. Sending a quick email would be a way to break the ice again, and give him a chance to make it up to you.

spacecadet561 59M

4/21/2006 1:50 pm

Maybe an e-mail to let him know you're still alive, since that's practically free. If he doesn't answer, write him off and move on to a more promising prospect. It sounds like you've got several interested candidates here already.


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