Men, how can you not know this??  

femalesquirter 44F
256 posts
2/7/2006 6:39 am

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Men, how can you not know this??

Every time when I ask a guy, here on AdultFriendFinder, how big is their cock size, I always get the same answer - "I have never had any complains". They even use the same answer to prove their skills in bed. Okay guys, here's the thing. It is awkward to complain to a guy during or after sex about how small your cock is or how lousy you are in bed. Same goes for you. Don't tell me you don't feel awkward complaining to a woman during or after sex that her boobs are too small or too big or her pussy is too stretched out and the fucking was terrible, etc. It is AWKWARD to complain to your sex partner hence you don't hear us complaining to you. But as a woman of many female friends, I hear complaints coming out of my ears about men. I hear things like, "he's a lousy kisser", "he has really bad breath", "I didn't feel a thing, his cock is too small", "he has a hairy butt, a hairy back", "he has pubic hair everywhere", "he smelled sweaty", "he said he could eat a woman for hours but he didn't even do it", "he said he could eat a woman for hours but he gave me 5 licks then he wanted to fuck". ETC, etc..and many many more that I cannot and don't care to remember.

See my point? So just because you think "I've never had any complains", it doesn't mean you have a big beautiful cock and you have great sexual prowess. Think twice the next time you want to tell a woman you've never had any complains. Trust me, you have. You just don't hear it up front, that's all.

crazygurl2xx 56F

2/7/2006 7:26 am

SO true!

campfirecozy 66M

2/7/2006 8:04 am

Isn't there a standardized 'fisherman ruler' for insecure men to use? It's like women who by size 4 dresses in a 'full-figured' shop and are thrilled at the dress size.

Full disclosure: 5.5" (and that's on a good day) take it or leave it.

redmustang91 57M  
8571 posts
2/7/2006 8:26 am

I tried to start an Underwriters Lab for sex fiends that would provide certifications for sexual performance and prowess, but I could not get enough females to volunteer to my stringent review process. I am still open to standardized testing service if you want to try...

redmustang91 57M  
8571 posts
2/7/2006 8:28 am

I read a survey that claims the average white male was almost 6 inches, with Asian men on average one half inch shorter and blacks on average one half inch longer, with the females of the races in proportion. Is a half inch such a big deal to become a size queen about?

rm_Pro_Boxa 59M

2/7/2006 8:39 am

Tell it how it is girl, don't hold back!
That's half the problem in relationships isn't it? No-one hears criticism easily, but faffing around relationship issues benefits no-one in the long run. It's takes a feisty lady to post something contentious like this.

SexyRycheBabe 44F
820 posts
2/7/2006 9:43 am

Here! Here!!

BTW, campfirecozy, you won't find a size 4 in a "full-figured shop."

The thing is, I can overlook a cock size ... because that's a portion of sexual play. But if he smells or tastes funny or doesn't even think enough of you to brush his teeth before he sees you or says he can eat for hours and eats for 2 seconds ... ALL of that is bad!! And cock size has little to do with that!!!

You can have a king kong-sized cock but if you don't do things to please a woman or go to any effort for her at all ... you'll still be classified as a bad lay. And there will be complaints ... just not TO YOU; and, if she's smart, you won't get to get another shot.

Abbienormal57 66F

2/7/2006 9:48 am

Hmp! Had large ones. Had small ones and everything in between. I've learn its not the equipment as it the knowledge that goes into using it the right way.

wetnwenatchee67 49M/49F

2/8/2006 12:12 am

well... the girl said it all.
i must say though, some of us have it all.
i have a "man" with nine + inches and knows how to use every
inch of it.

gussax 51M

2/12/2006 10:54 am

This is one of the reasons I prefer women who are brutally honest. I'm not going to get my feelings hurt if a woman returns my email saying she won't date me because I have a receding hair line, or I'm not athletic enough.

I was in the bar once and one of the regulars was on a date with this gal. They had been in that bar a few times together. The guy was wearing a Star Trek pin that when you hit it, it makes the sound of the doors opening on the Enterprise. I thought it was the stupidest thing, and kinda felt sorry for the gal having to be with the guy while he was wearing it. I told him that I couldn't believe that he was wearing such a geeking thing while on a date. The gal responded and said bluntly "Yeah, that's exactly what I told him". I love people who will tell you straight to your face what they think.

rm_dingy4fun 57M
37 posts
2/14/2006 6:17 am

I'm just over 7" women tell me I have a nice cock, one woman put it this way "oh my.." that puts me above average but not quite "oh my god!"
One of the above responses was about how you use it and I agree. I have been with many women over the years and the one thing that I have learned is that your likes and dislikes vary alot. Your all different, what turns on one woman another may not care for. I pride myself on being a great lover,I'm always clean and smell good and exspect the same from my lovers, that's just a given.
Where it really gets tricky with you women is I guess maybe you all think that other women are just like you in what turns them on.NOT!
If you want your man to be a great lover you have to help him out a little.If your to shy to just come right out and tell him what you want, you can send signals during love making.If your not to shy you can give directions, I like that and think it's really sexy.Nothing pleases me more than turning you on and making YOU cum. You see there is another thing, you don't all orgasm the same.....I have had lovers that when she came even the neighbors knew it, then others that even I wasn't sure if she did or not. You girls have it pretty simple with us men, we are simple creatures,women are very complicated but that's what I love about you!
Some of you have mental hang ups,trust issues or what ever that you should share with us if it affects your abilty to enjoy sex. I once had a girlfriend that told me no man had ever made her cum, that she just couldn't. She could get herself off but had a hang up when a man was trying. To me, I saw this as a great challenge! To boldly go where no man had gone before! I did it but it took months and a lot of patients.
If you find a man like myself that enjoys turning you on and not just wanting to blow his load and go to sleep then don't be to shy to make the love making great!

rm_guccigreg 37M
4 posts
2/20/2006 3:05 pm

I have a size 8" cock and love a women who can suck the whole thing. Even though it's usewally just a lot of likeing on the head becuase they don't like sucking the whole thing an getting cum in the back of there throat. I have pics of me,but would love to talk to a women who want's a well hung man that knows how to use AdultFriendFinder contact me and other lovely ladies.

lynk69 41M  
261 posts
2/21/2006 9:31 pm

LMAO - that is too funny. On serveral levels. I can't speak for all men, but telling a woman how big my cock is, is just as bad a posting a pic of it. I will say this however, if pushed, I will reveal the details. As for the other points made, I think everyone can learn from this. Listen carefully people, There are obvious clues about what one's likes and dislikes are, about both your performance and their enjoyment of certain acts.
If you find your partner trying to breath through their mouth while kissing you, it may be time for a mint or a toothbrush.
If your partner perfers to kiss your body over your lips, let them, its okay, your a bad kisser. The good news is, they are trying to work around that fact. Another clue is, if while tongue kissing, neither of you can seem to time your movements right, your both probably bad kissers. Move on, find something else to do with your mouth. Its okay! You can enjoy each other in different ways!
Everyone is guilty of this one from time to time. If your worried about the size of guy's cock, a woman's boobs or if they have too much unwanted hair, you should address these issues prior to hooking up with them. Its okay to tell others what you like and what you dislike. You can really save yourselves the embarassment later on by just being honest in the beginning. Furthermore, guys, if you know you are not that endowed, consider polishing your oral skills. Women, if your finding that too many men aren't packing enough meat for you, consider doing keagle exercises to firm things up a little. Guys can benifit from these exercises as well, by gaining more control over their orgasms.
This one is the truest of all. When someone says that they can go down for hours, but either doesn't go there for long if at all, there is something else from stopping them. I haven't met a man alive yet that has had the balls to tell the woman he is about to have sex with, that her taste or odor was too unpleasant for them to do what they claimed to be able to do. We simply move on. The same goes for women, if a man has a funny odor or taste, she won't stay long if she goes there at all. Now it should be understood that everyone's body chemistry is different and that something that I like may be different from what another likes. In conclusion, if you want to avoid these awkward intenses, I would suggest that you take all neccessary precautions and thoroughly bathe any areas that you want your prospective partner to spend on, just prior to your encounter. This should be common sense and just plain good grooming.

I hope I have been able to educate or if nothing else, then to entertain. Happy hunting and remember the silent signs.

JPP2200 63M

3/1/2006 8:01 pm

Do you ladies really think that I have a tape measure handy when I'm hanging out and hard as a rock-fully excited? Maybe if I was jerking off while building my addition. I would say that it's been eyeballed a few times and the length has only been estimated. Somewhere between 7 inches,she said , to 8 inches, I claim.

JPP2200 63M

3/1/2006 8:06 pm

Very true Abbie. And the same goes for the ladies. A girl can be boring in bed or just one happy suprise after another.

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