WHY?????  

female_4_u_2_pla 44F  
983 posts
5/2/2006 5:05 am

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WHY?????



I really would like an answer to this question. Why does a person who was suppose to love you and you let go of him, so he could be happy. Comeback into your life every 9 monthes or year? Just when I think he is gone for good he pops back into my life. I want him to be happy but why does he go out of his way to be cruel?

Vida

Hope everyon'e life is going great.

Vida


female_4_u_2_pla 44F  
702 posts
5/7/2006 5:10 am

Well I didnt tell him but I did put it on my profile. I basically told him I will always worry about him but he is the one who walked out. He wanted his new GF so he was going to have to deal with her while I went on with my life. I was also smart enough not to give him my phone numbers. I guess this is a closed door in my life and it only took me 3 years to do it. LOL

Hope everyon'e life is going great.

Vida


rysxnysx 52M
1 post
5/3/2006 5:39 pm

agree - he can't let go - worse; figures you'll let him back in. won't change until you draw the line - he can't.


timeforfun219 41M/42F  
2155 posts
5/2/2006 6:11 am

Because he can't really let go and close the door on that part of his life. You need to close it for him of it will just continue.

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fantasylover_05 62M

5/2/2006 5:56 am

That is indeed a very difficult thing!!

I had a woman that I love dearly and deeply.. she disappeared from my life for 6 months thne just as I was finally accepting she was gone popped back into my life.. I blogged on this as it was happening.. I actually blogged my "good bye" and the very next week she popped in.... I ultimately told her good bye and she is now out of my life.... as much as I wanted desperately to welcome her back into my life and to pick up where we left off.. I just knew it was best for both of us to say our good byes once and for all... but honestly this is something I STILL struggle with almost daily.. I miss her terribly!!!

Good luck in sorting out your situation!!


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