What about you? Looking for more than a one nighter?  

rm_fatgirl48 48F
413 posts
11/7/2005 3:32 am

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What about you? Looking for more than a one nighter?

I am a standard member never paid up for the premium. I have had thousands of replies, sounds great right?? Let me sort out my replies for you.. about 50% are too far to meet frequently, 25% are over 50 hmm thats 75 %... another 20% are married 3% not my type, met the other 2% and got stood up!!! But have to say about 98% are just playing around and not serious about meeting. and of that 98% all are looking for one nighters. Sigh... anybody ever look for more than that???Don't get me wrong, one nighters are great if that's what you want. Me?? looking for a bit more, I would enjoy spending time out of bed with someone, an NO sex on the sofa doesn't count!! I am not looking for a serious relationship just a frequent friends with benefits and long term, I hate looking for a new lover every other month. I hate dating, too many games. That's why I joined here, I rerally suck at relationships, so I figured that looking for sex was going to be easier... NOT still more games than I planned on and way too many players for me. Guess being picky doesn't help either. I know what I like and want and am not going to settle for a guy who doesn't turn me on. Everyone has their own preferences and I respect that, hope ya all can respect mine!! If your not interested great hope you find what your looking for... but... got a friend?? LOL Take care

rm_j7088 53M
17 posts
11/7/2005 4:42 am

i think your totals are close but hey every now and then lighting strikes no you are not asking to much. you want what you want right?
thats why i joined this site cause the folks told what they are looking for and as we are all adults we can respect it. so hang in there and keep it together youll be fine

womanoirish 54F

11/7/2005 4:48 am

Yes, you have company! You are not the only one looking for something more than a one-night-stand. Unfortunately, that seems to be the norm around here.

And you keep right on being picky. Life is WAY too short to settle for anything.

1973GAL 43F

11/7/2005 6:56 am

My 2 cents on this whole thing..is mostly this site is for sex and sex alone...not many people on here want more than that...they are pretty explicit in expressing their needs and wants--they want sex and no strings with it...I am thinking if you want to find your mate for a long term thing, try eharmony or match.com because they are more based on that than this site is...And there is alot of married guys/gals on here as well--so they can only have the no strings, no holds barred, raunchy, fun, one niter sex experiences! I have had great luck finding that and I will continue to enjoy my "no strings" sex one nite or more---ok off the soap box now

rm_fatgirl48 48F
90 posts
11/8/2005 4:08 am

I am not looking for the love of my life, well maybe, but not here. I am looking for a longer than one night sexual relationship. I am glad you are finding what you are looking for.

rm_wanderingi06 52M

12/21/2005 3:49 pm

I have to agree with 1973GAL, the whole purpose of the site is to connect with other people who are looking for simple sex. You are right though, that it is so much easier to make the it seems rare connection once or at least rarely rather than chase around constantly remaking the sale, so to say. I personally can't stand the rejection.

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