things just ain't the same...  

fatalepussi 41F
12 posts
7/13/2005 6:04 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

things just ain't the same...


I wrote my last blog less than a week ago and i feel the need to clarify some things. i am secure in my sexuality, but i don't believe this is the best place to find what i want. i haven't been on a date since...oh...1999. that's pretty sad. some of that's my own fault, but not anymore...lol.

most of the people here are, for lack of a better phrase, fishing. i've received numerous requests from people that i know i sent a message stating i wasn't interested. it's annoying to receive the second message that says 'hope to hear from you soon', but the third and fourth AFTER i've clearly stated i'm not interested makes me livid. if you've done this, and there are five of you out there i can think of off the top of my head, stop. it hurts the people out there that DO recognize i've politely told them we aren't a match.

CleveCouple2 46M/39F

7/17/2005 7:52 pm

In many ways I do agree with you; perhaps people do use a service like this as a Lonely Hearts Club. I'd imagine, though, that there might be a segment that uses this as a means of introduction; Some may not enjoy the clubbing/bar scenes; some may not have friends in their social circle that are interested in the sensual.

Try not to let a few bad eggs spoil the refrigerator. No matter how annoying they can be. I'd think that services like this are as good as you make it.

And heck, at least you've got fans of your early blog posts!


rbh678969 52M
1 post
7/24/2005 11:58 am

I, for one would like to compliment you, as you are one fine individual. That being said, I tried to contact you a number of times, and got no reply. That in itself, is just as bad. And maybe if you treat the people that contact you better, your problem will go away.


bigram1972 44M
1 post
8/2/2005 4:53 pm

I would like to me and have a real conversation with you. And see what the rest of you looks like.


BROC817 44M

8/10/2005 7:18 pm

well i cant blame you and i was gonna give you a invite but im new to this type of thing...now you got me scared...instead of meeting how about you join the hottest group in cleveland...there are lots of hot sex talk and flirts but there is no horn balls allowed....you can talk to people and get real answers...the groups name is ---

looking for a relationship

you can come see how a group with less then 6 members got to be number one in cleveland.....i think you will like it...plus you can join in and chew my butt off for being in our blog...lol...bye 4 now


RouteHosedQuart 46M
1 post
2/8/2006 12:01 pm

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