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I have a question!!!!!! Is there a thing between two consenting adults called "JUST SEX"? Most women i have asked this to, say NO!!!! What do you think?
11/17/2005 2:09 pm
Well, "just sex" is what we are led to believe in certain instances. It is tough to keep it at "just sex". I've had friendships that I thought were just that at the beginning, but found out differently someplace in the middle of them.
Here is the absolute acid-test to find out if it is really "just sex". Tell her there is another woman who you are planning to see sometime in the near future (don't make it up though - let it be the truth). "Hey, I'm sorry I can't make it Thursday, I've already made plans with someone else." Her reaction is your ultimate answer to how it is between ya'll.
If she applauds and says "go for it, stud-muffin" (or words to that effect), then you better hang on to that girlie for all the "just sex" you can stand.
Usually, however, I have found quite the opposite to be the case though. I'm usually faced with the "I thought I was special" kinda feelings or response from her, which tells me that there was all sorts of emotion involved that I didn't know about.
Now, lemme say, all my friends hold a special place in my heart and to that extent, then I guess there is no "just sex", even for me.
Perhaps instead of "just sex" we should expand the phrase to "good friends, who share". That'd probably work out with better results if it was understood in the beginning between all parties...
Just my 12 cents... (inflation, ya know?)