Why have a blog  

fancy_for_you 40F
3003 posts
5/22/2006 4:23 am

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5/23/2006 1:25 pm

Why have a blog

I caught myself asking this question yesterday. Why have a blog when very few people post replies. I have to say thanks to Da Lone Elf for being a consistant poster. And to OC and Fly and NB for at least viewing if not posting. But truely other than those close friends no one else seems to post anything.

Makes me wonder are they sick of hearing about the bad things lately.....if so sorry I can't help it. I started this blog off on a good note or two. Not my fault things go to shit in peoples lives occassionally. Take the bad with the good or just don't take me at all is my thoughts. In other words if ya don't like what ya read here then don't look....but if ya do look please be kind enough to leave me a message. Doesn't have to be an everyday thing but at least occassionally I like to hear other peoples opinions. And trust me as soon as AdultFriendFinder lets me have a confirmation number I will try to reply to statements.

Anyways, after asking myself that question I realized why I created a blog. It's to let my close friends on AdultFriendFinder know what's going on with me when we don't get chances to chat on the hoo or for the friends who aren't on my hoo list yet. You all may say yeah we know what kinda friends you have from a adult site but truely the group I have joined FTLS(Folks That Love Sex) are there as more than just people looking for sex....we are there for the friendship and we care about each other. Ya couldn't ask for a better group of people even though we have our ups and downs just like any other group of sex crazed people in the world.

Ok enough for now....I've been up all night and think I am finally making some sense so I better go get some sleep so I can get back to my normal bitchy self.

Night all



mundarikos 40M
423 posts
5/22/2006 7:04 am

have it for your own benefit... sometimes it takes a while to build up a "following", at that point you will find yourself with too many replies to reply to!
keep it up

Da_Lone_Elf 50M

5/22/2006 8:17 am

Fuzzy Darlin' don't think about the replies you are not getting. Charish the ones you are getting, be confident in the knowledge that you are being read, you are slowly developing new friends.

Personally I use me blog simply to xepress myself, if others enjoy and comment that is a bonus, but I primarily just do it for myself. I really have no desire to play the game of who is most popular blogger with the most comments.

You are very welcome for my comments & as your friend I will continue to read & comment to your blog.

Da Elf

luv2lik_snatch 53M
100 posts
5/22/2006 3:16 pm

Sorry I don't leave replies, but I do read your blog. I'll try to do better.

Take Care Babe

ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/22/2006 7:26 pm

Fuzzy, I have learned that it takes time to develope a following and in due time you'll get that following.I can tell you you have some very popular bloggers already watching your posts. I too have dealt with this and it is nothing that i'm sure most have experienced themselves.Big hugs and my blessings. Ohc

manfiru 55M

5/22/2006 9:42 pm

Hi Fuzzy, Funny you are questioning "Why". I started my blog tonight. It's good to have a place where you can be yourself, vent, ask questions, get your friends opinions ect. It's very obvious you knew all that. Keep writng, you do it so well. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

divemedicdave 64M
54 posts
5/23/2006 7:22 am

Fuzzy, we've been friends for months now, & I saw what you wrote about people not posting here.

I have to admit that I generally don't read blogs, although if I had more free time I would.

Know that you are a very special friend, and sometime when you see me I'll tell you my version of what happened after we hung up Saturday night. I know that Rose has given you her version already. Suffice it to say no matter which version you like, the result is the same. We are wildly, completely, and passionately, very much in love with each other, and it came like a bolt out of the blue at 4:00 Sunday morning.

I hope that your family situation is continuing to improve. Keep me posted.

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