Married men  

falcon7789 68M
19 posts
12/14/2005 7:14 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Married men

Well this might not apply to all married men, so this is just my feelings. I know that my chances of meeting a woman on this site is very slim. I contribute that to the fact that (1) I am married. I guess most women do not want to be second in any relationship, and I cannot blame them. (2) I am over 50, which seems to put off a lot of women here. I have seen some posts from other guys that are married and they have the same problem. I would like to point out some of the good points that a married man has.
One is that he is safe, and what I mean by that, is he has only been with one woman, so chances are he is clean. Another is that he will be very appreciative of a woman because he is not getting what he needs at home. Also you do not have to worry about attachments happening, because he has a lot to lose. He will also be very experienced. Now as we men get older, we do learn how to please a woman and are willing to go the extra mile to insure she is well satisfied. I know there are a lot of disadvantages, such as being to go out when you want, date on a regular basis, and not have to worry about being caught by someone's spouse.
So I would like some comments from both the ladies, especially any that have dated married men, and any married guys as well. Good luck to everyone in their quest on here.

SexyRycheBabe 45F
820 posts
12/14/2005 9:13 am

I won't do a married man because I believe in karma and what goes around comes around. I don't want to risk my future marriage (assuming that there ever is one) to that of karmic backlash. It's just not worth it to me. Married men should do eiher: 1, their own women or, 2, other married women.

Just my two cents

falcon7789 68M

12/15/2005 6:36 am

Thank you for your comments. I really appreciate the views from women on this subject. As for the reasons that ShayeDK man abandoned the relationship could be many. It could have been the same with a single guy as well. You will never know unless he contacts you again. As for me, I am really on an info quest here. I know that for a relationship to work, there has to be some mutual attraction at least, and it seems that was there. I know a lunch date can be innocent, and if looking for just a friend to talk to, what harm can that cause. I know my wife has lunch with male counterparts from her work, and her previous job as well. I on the other hand work alone and do not have the opportunity to talk to anyone. So when I need to talk, I can only talk to myself and try to figure out the problem I have that way. I have always found it easier to talk to a woman and I am hoping that this blog will give me the chance to do it. Again thanks for the info. Hope everyone has a great holidays ahead.

5 posts
12/26/2005 11:29 am

me gusta la forma de pensar de falcon

rm_gsj0788 52M

1/7/2006 7:23 am

Great post, My same feeling. If a married woman posts on here, then there are 1000 guys who will want her. If a married man post there 990 women who rule you out in there profile, 7 who will respond with a polite no thanks, 2 who will chat with you but nothing more and 1 who will ask you to be her sugar daddy. Not to mention the one offer from a guy. This has been my experience such as it is.

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