i'm an asshole ?  

ezgoing1465 52M
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12/27/2005 12:55 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

i'm an asshole ?


"have you ever considered dating again?" this was the question posed to me by my ex shortly after having a much needed booty call graciously answered by her.
if i wanted to start dating again i just would have asked. then came the guilt trip and then a little yelling, followed by too many questions and the eventual "you just used me".
what did she think was going to happen and why wasn't that brought up before my face was buried in her crotch? silence is golden right?
you must understand that we had a 10 yr relationship and in the end BOTH decided it wasn't going to work. i figured the reason she slept with me was because she was as horny as i was - wrong! apparently most women don't act that way.
now i'm an asshole and back to dating myself for a while.
somebody save me before my forarms start looking like popeye the sailor

rm_mnbeams 49F

1/27/2006 1:14 pm

WOW That is a tough situation. I guess both of you should have made it clear what was wanted and needed. 10 years is a long time to be together, so in a way I can see where she is coming from but you didnt mention what brought about the initial conversation and then leading to what ended up just being a booty call. I would say that both of you are to blame for that one. I wouldnt call you an asshole for it though.


rm_mnbeams 49F

1/27/2006 1:17 pm

Oops i guess I should have read the other posts. But regardless, I still wouldnt call you an asshole. Hey you needed it and obviously she did too, it is just that women are more emotional then men are.


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