had a time out  

evernhamsdodges 59M
19 posts
7/6/2006 7:55 pm

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9/13/2006 6:19 pm

had a time out

been away from this awhile, thought it time to make a notation. been looking, winking and even exchanging some emails, but that is the extent of what folks want. no active participation at the moment from any of them. such a blow to my ego. lol well, i just have to keep plugging along and see who is next out there.

curnchey 48M/44F

7/24/2006 12:45 pm

I have found that the trick is to be friends even if nothing sexual ever comes about from it. We do look for couples and singles we ourselves are just not active alot of the time. If you haven't done so join some of the groups here. That seems to be a great way to meet people

evernhamsdodges 59M
16 posts
7/24/2006 6:24 pm

thank you for your comments. i can't even get to the friends part with most. i must be lacking in my social skills or something. as said earlier, will keep plugging and plodding along.

rm_Isabel1130 61F

9/3/2006 8:34 pm

Just a few observations. Most men approach women the way they would want to be approached. They also assume that the women out there respond to the exact same approach that a man would. The only people you are going to attract with a too direct approach is gay men, women who will lay anyone, and those who are just here for the fantasy. My husband says it is very tough for single men on this site, and I believe him. I still think I would do about as well at the office in my quest for the right outside relationship but I have seen some pretty overt sexual behavior in men that then run scared when the actual possibility of taking it to the next level approaches. People are weird, even you and me.....sometimes it takes a while for something to develop.

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