Online love. x  

eveready06 42M
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7/3/2006 4:30 pm

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7/7/2006 8:54 pm

Online love. x

My thought for the day and the question I want to put to you is this. Do you think its possible to fall head over heals for someone without actually meeting them? Personally I used to think it was something that only happened to oddballs that you read about in crap weekly womens magazines, right next to the article entitled My fallopian tubes fell off but I still had seven kids lol but recent events have totally changed my opinion! You see by talking to someone online for hours every day I think you can get a true insight into what / who that person is. I'm by no means saying that talking should replace intimacy, just that by actually listening, expressing your views and laughing with someone you can build something far stronger and longer lasting than you could with something purely based on lust. In saying that for someone to be the one as it were the lust/attraction has to be there as well but does a lot of that not happen in the mind anyway? Therefore by talking and flirting etc that lust builds and builds. Put these two things together and what you've got is something pretty special in my opinion that you wouldn't necessarily get from just meeting someone in a club etc as I suppose initially its easier to be totally open and honest with someone you've just met when your not actually facing them. It could become (I say could but in my personal experience I believe it has)something that may come along only once in your life, based on strong foundations based on more than just I wanna shag you senseless! (although I'd be lying if I said that didn't come into it lol) where when you eventually meet that person everything just clicks into place and it just instinctively feels right. You know that this is the person you want and are possibly destined to be with. I know that this could happen anywhere, anytime and in any situation its just that I wouldnt/wasnt expecting it to happen on here!What do you think? Am I full of shit or do I have a point? lol! Anyway I know this is all a bit deep but I've run out of jokes for the time being so was feeling all thoughtful and philosophical and thought I'd share. lol! One to think about though!. Normal service will be resumed shortly (as soon as I find a half decent joke lol).


pretty_blue_eyes 38F
2091 posts
7/3/2006 9:59 pm

I'm not quite sure if you can fall in love with someone online. I suppose it depends on how truthful the other person is. If that person were being dishonest the feelings that you develop wouldn't be true to the REAL person. Also, I think you can develop some awareness to each other, with the other person's thoughts, comments, desires, etc.


Deeelishious 52M/52F

7/4/2006 12:43 pm

LOl I think K has serious competition lol id say that Shit about honesty/dishonesty if i was trying to get in someones knickers /Underpants too good tactics blue lol xj


Deeelishious 52M/52F

7/4/2006 12:51 pm

    Quoting pretty_blue_eyes:
    I'm not quite sure if you can fall in love with someone online. I suppose it depends on how truthful the other person is. If that person were being dishonest the feelings that you develop wouldn't be true to the REAL person. Also, I think you can develop some awareness to each other, with the other person's thoughts, comments, desires, etc.
And Blue sorry for jumping in here but the lady i think he's talking about is 1 of the most honest people alive you cant get more up front & honest than she not to mention beautiful within & out quite a catch hey Ev?

Where is the deeelishious k ??????????????????? come to think of it


eveready06 42M

7/4/2006 2:26 pm

    Quoting pretty_blue_eyes:
    I'm not quite sure if you can fall in love with someone online. I suppose it depends on how truthful the other person is. If that person were being dishonest the feelings that you develop wouldn't be true to the REAL person. Also, I think you can develop some awareness to each other, with the other person's thoughts, comments, desires, etc.
Don't get me wrong, I still think you have to meet the person to really know if what your feeling is the real deal or not. But I get your point in that I know everyone isn't as straight talking as me and there are people out there who would intentionally paint a completely fabricated picture of themselves in order to get laid! In this case though I know my instincts are right. Thanks again for posting hun,its always a pleasure! pop in again soon!


eveready06 42M

7/4/2006 2:35 pm

    Quoting Deeelishious:
    LOl I think K has serious competition lol id say that Shit about honesty/dishonesty if i was trying to get in someones knickers /Underpants too good tactics blue lol xj
Aww, your scaring off my lovely public lol! Smacked wrist for you lol! Think you may be a bit off the mark in this one though unless blue's got shares in Virgin transatlantic flights!!! lol! Good to see you hunny! Get up to anything interesting while you were away?I've been waiting here patiently to finish fucking you up the arse lollllll! tc hun xx


eveready06 42M

7/4/2006 2:41 pm

    Quoting Deeelishious:
    And Blue sorry for jumping in here but the lady i think he's talking about is 1 of the most honest people alive you cant get more up front & honest than she not to mention beautiful within & out quite a catch hey Ev?

    Where is the deeelishious k ??????????????????? come to think of it

How true is that! She's having a bit of time out from the site though hun. She's got a fair bit on her plate at the moment so isn't really in the mood to be happy smiley with her blogging public! She's coming out the other side though and I'm sure she'll be back soon. In the meantime rest assured I'm trying to cheer her up as best I can!


Deeelishious 52M/52F

7/4/2006 3:21 pm

Absolute crap at me scaring the public lol mmm i dont think so with your tease tactics and as for shares in Virgin people have done this many a time you just have to check through internet history and The Trisha Goddard archives lol honey be warned muah & hope k is back to herself soon AdultFriendFinder lifes dim without her smiley outlook send her our love please hope she 's back to herself & soon & no fucking me up my arse until she's back as it keeps her on her toes it's all in jest you know please make her aware of that although i know she knows this already (i hope she does ) xj


eveready06 42M

7/4/2006 3:42 pm

    Quoting Deeelishious:
    Absolute crap at me scaring the public lol mmm i dont think so with your tease tactics and as for shares in Virgin people have done this many a time you just have to check through internet history and The Trisha Goddard archives lol honey be warned muah & hope k is back to herself soon AdultFriendFinder lifes dim without her smiley outlook send her our love please hope she 's back to herself & soon & no fucking me up my arse until she's back as it keeps her on her toes it's all in jest you know please make her aware of that although i know she knows this already (i hope she does ) xj
Was just kidding about the public hun although Tease tactics??? you'll have to explain! lol! Think she knows its jest hun but I wasn't so sure! Gutted!. Ah well such is life, knew it was to good to be true! lol! I'll pass on your love, but keep coming back in the meantime hun! I've got no-one to talk to at the minute! My blogs devoid of comments Loll!


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