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eveready06 41M
1058 posts
6/17/2006 6:43 am

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Love

Basically what I'd like to know is, do you think that love should be the basis around which your life should be built or should you build your life as you want it with love as the icing on a pretty fantastic cake? I'd also be interested to know if this poll makes any sense to anyone lol! As I've just reread it and it didn't to me, but I'm posting it anyway!!
Love first, Life later.
Life first, Love as the icing with a cherry on top!


eveready06 41M

6/17/2006 8:46 am

    Quoting Lookng4RealMan:
    Live your life. If love comes along that's great. Be happy. If it doesn't you still have a great life. Love can get complicated and hurt, and if you don't have a happy life to fall back on, you're in real trouble.
My thoughts exactly. Besides love flows so much more easily when its not the be all and end all of your life! Thanks for posting hun, come back soon!


countryheart_71 45F
8082 posts
6/17/2006 11:20 am

Life is what happens to everyone. Love is a great bonus!

~Country~


eveready06 41M

6/17/2006 2:50 pm

    Quoting countryheart_71:
    Life is what happens to everyone. Love is a great bonus!
Thanks for coming back D! like I say Love is fantastic but you cant count on it for making your life. It can complete your life yes but I think you need to have something for love to thrive on in the first place.


rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
1614 posts
6/17/2006 10:58 pm

hello xxxx

Id have to say i agree with you all totally but would also like to add a negative to the really lovely positive you have created here is life that cut n dry ?????

Love first, Life later.
Life first, Love as the icing with a cherry on top!

i guess im just seeing the poll from both sides i think life should be sweet and then when love blossoms if your life is good then it will continue to grow and in theory would then be a perfect ending to another chic flick kinda movie and they a lived happily ever after however theres also hundreds thousands millions even that dont have much chance of even having an ok life im talking children bought into poverty & war stricken countries where praying for a small miracle is and everyday nessesity in order to get through the day , violent & abusive relationships etc theyre life map is never going to be for actually living i'd say more like survival of the strongest fittest etc so if they happen to stumble across love and are lucky enough to experience what we sometimes take for granted the intensity of true love that would therefore make there life more wholesome would nt it?? but sadly theyre little bit of happiness will never add up to something weve always had

And forgive me im ramblinggggggggggggggg on xxxx


rm_xxSpecialKxx 45F
1614 posts
6/17/2006 11:01 pm

By the way i forgot to say in my moment of deepness just then lol
--->>>> Elephant Shoes baby xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx k


eveready06 41M

6/19/2006 9:01 am

    Quoting rm_xxSpecialKxx:
    hello xxxx

    Id have to say i agree with you all totally but would also like to add a negative to the really lovely positive you have created here is life that cut n dry ?????

    Love first, Life later.
    Life first, Love as the icing with a cherry on top!

    i guess im just seeing the poll from both sides i think life should be sweet and then when love blossoms if your life is good then it will continue to grow and in theory would then be a perfect ending to another chic flick kinda movie and they a lived happily ever after however theres also hundreds thousands millions even that dont have much chance of even having an ok life im talking children bought into poverty & war stricken countries where praying for a small miracle is and everyday nessesity in order to get through the day , violent & abusive relationships etc theyre life map is never going to be for actually living i'd say more like survival of the strongest fittest etc so if they happen to stumble across love and are lucky enough to experience what we sometimes take for granted the intensity of true love that would therefore make there life more wholesome would nt it?? but sadly theyre little bit of happiness will never add up to something weve always had

    And forgive me im ramblinggggggggggggggg on xxxx

I love your rambling baby, dont ever apologise for it and dont ever stop lol! As usual your spot on! Ok, maybe my question was a bit too simplistic and coming from a rose tinted outlook on life but I'm hearing you hunny and as usual your making a whole lotta sense. In cases like that though I do think that love at least temporarily can make the overall outlook seem a little brighter. Elephant Shoessssssssss! xxxxxxxxx


GossipJunkie 40F

6/21/2006 5:50 pm

    Quoting Lookng4RealMan:
    Live your life. If love comes along that's great. Be happy. If it doesn't you still have a great life. Love can get complicated and hurt, and if you don't have a happy life to fall back on, you're in real trouble.
I think finding contentment in life will draw the love you desire closer to you.

GossipJunkie
"Dance like nobody's watching"


rm_douglhers 41M
150 posts
6/22/2006 12:05 am

Man you are all so wrong i like what you all have to say but love love, love life and live it to the fullest and u will find love...Love everything that needs it love yourself dont search for it it will find you....Do onto your neighbor as u would want them to do onto you...I do see the point behind living life first but what is without life....not to be confused with lust...


rm_douglhers 41M
150 posts
6/22/2006 12:10 am

Man you are all so wrong i like what you all have to say but love love, love life and live it to the fullest and u will find love...Love everything that needs it love yourself dont search for it it will find you....Do onto your neighbor as u would want them to do onto you...I do see the point behind living life first but what is without life with out love....not to be confused with lust...


eveready06 41M

6/22/2006 2:39 pm

    Quoting GossipJunkie:
    I think finding contentment in life will draw the love you desire closer to you.
Dunno if its that or that being content leaves you more susceptible to falling in love! Just a theory!


eveready06 41M

6/22/2006 2:45 pm

    Quoting rm_douglhers:
    Man you are all so wrong i like what you all have to say but love love, love life and live it to the fullest and u will find love...Love everything that needs it love yourself dont search for it it will find you....Do onto your neighbor as u would want them to do onto you...I do see the point behind living life first but what is without life with out love....not to be confused with lust...
So if Ive read you right, your saying basically that you need to live every moment and embrace every opportunity that comes along? If thats what your saying then I cant disagree with you!


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