I wish  

evalouise2 51F
21 posts
9/6/2005 3:07 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

I wish

I love getting all your winks.
I love getting your emails.
I also love the photos.

And I wish I had the nerve (or whatever) to try almost all of you.

Some of you are so much younger than me...
you really want to be with an older woman?

But really my problem is getting over my own insecurities. I am not thin and fit. I'm working on it. But I'm not there right now....

And I have stretch marks for being pregnant. Its hard to imagine this being okay....

So there is the desire to explore...
then there is the reality of possibly being rejected....

So, I'm here on the site - for real. I would like to meet someone but it might take me a while to get there.

FREAK3499 45M
1 post
9/6/2005 4:29 pm

Yes, yes and yes I would love to be with a older women. I love what women think are in-prefections. Really that is what I love most about women the in-prefection it makes them real and so much more sexy then someone who is so called perfect. call me I'll 773 799-5928..

frogger1995 39F

9/6/2005 5:05 pm

You would be surprised how accepting men are of a woman. I have my flaws that I am insecure about (you can't see everything in my pics) and every man that I have been naked in front of has thought I was beautiful. I think there is just something about seeing a naked woman that puts rose (or something) colored glasses on men.

cocky_abq_69 42M

9/6/2005 6:04 pm

I'd like to meet you. I'm not perfect either. Lets give it a shot.

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
9/6/2005 6:07 pm

Someone who admits to stretch marks must be real. I know how you feel, I have them too.

rm_ebonyt69 59M/48F
2 posts
9/6/2005 6:09 pm

The Key is LOVE YOURSELF!...No one is PERFECT!

taodoug65 51M
262 posts
9/6/2005 6:14 pm

Don't worry.. But remember the only one that sets barriers on you .......... Will always be you........

I hope you find on here what you need.

Bikeaholic 38M
3 posts
9/6/2005 7:04 pm

Take your time and hop in when you feel brave enough to do so. In the mean time enjoy all the compliments and take them as close to heart as you do your own insecurities. Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It's just too bad women never really see how beautiful they are. As for the age difference why even question it? Attractiveness has never been limited to age. As a matter of fact many women look better "older" than when they were "younger". Enjoy your beauty, everyone else is.

butzche 40M

9/6/2005 7:09 pm

Damn woman,

All those winks, emails, and photos should build your confidence. Not every man is looking for a woman with a perfect body and big tits. Thats bullshit. Snap out of that whole mind frame. Please.


rm_sweetalker60 51M

9/6/2005 8:06 pm

Unfortunately, the very nature of this place makes us go through those insecurities, particularly when you read profiles from people asking for nothing but models "in order to be granted the blessing of their attention". Sometimes it feels like being in a meat market... then again, there are also those who are looking for someone that can identify with their desires, their fantasies and even their goals in life.

I tend to quickly dismiss those who start by saying "I'm fit so you should be too..." Ture, it's their prerrogative and should be respected but definitively not a person I would enjoy talking seriously.

Rejection... aren't we all scared of that? At this point in my life, rejection doesn't scare me (doesn't mean is a pleasant thing either). Rather, it only means that somebody couldn't manage to see passed the exterior and didn't want to take the chance to find out what's underneath an exterior that they deemed unattractive. Life teaches us to see beyong that sooner or later.

Age... such an overrated issue and really a sickening and lame excuse. All of a sudden, those of use who are in our 40s are useless. Personally I think is nonsense... and I haven't gotten any complains so far...

Anyway, don't let that discourage you! We all have insecurities. The challenge is to overcome then and only you can do that by looking inside yourself and see all what you ahve to offer. I've been there myself... and I know that we can change (nobody else can make us change unless we want to do it, starting from within). Like the saying goes... when the pain of remaining the same is larger than the pain of change, then we start changing...

I'll be happy to talk with you sometime should you need to hear my story and what an amazing transformation we can achieve when we just look at ourselves for who we really are.

All the best to you and chin up!!!

rm_winxnnods 55F

9/6/2005 8:58 pm

Hello, winx here. Your blog caught my eye. I am just a little older than you and am here to tell you that stretch marks can be a beautiful thing to the right man. I have been told that it shows my maturity and my strength, my nurturing, everything good in a woman. So don't sweat it. It's all good. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, you just have to find the right "holder". Good luck on the quiting smoking. You go girl.

1hardhotrod4u 47M
82 posts
9/6/2005 9:19 pm

Oh dear........lol you sound like every woman I've ever met! Everyone feels insecure about their body! Which is what is good about this site........you can get to know each other without that stuff geting in the way.......you can explore your thoughts together and get close. That can make finally meeting a bit scarey tho- but I have met a few women off here and its mostly been fine- we have had a few laughs.....and some sexy times too.......so it's worth the risk in the end......good luck in looking......

rm_L0lo69 52M
26 posts
9/6/2005 9:23 pm

Ok; you has already started and that is something.Take your time, make a tour within the blogs to have an idea and later try to post some answers to post made for different folks. I hope you will enjoy.

rm_L0lo69 52M
26 posts
9/6/2005 9:26 pm

You has already started so just relax and try to have some fun from this experience. By the way , do you think that the rest of all are perfect ?... no way.

rm_Here2play812 47M
179 posts
9/6/2005 9:50 pm

beauty is so much more than skin deep - be confident and have fun, if not you may miss something special

TheQuietGuy2005 54M
2386 posts
9/6/2005 10:08 pm

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder ... and it's amazing how distorted our vision can be when we're beholding ourselves, ma'am!

Our "flaws", as SaintLianna say, are often what make us real, interesting, unique ... they're signs that we've lived and rarely something to be ashamed of. True beauty radiates from inside

Glad to see you've made it over here from ALT.COM (a fellow blogger claims a terrible smell wafts downwind from there but I've never been close enough!) and I look forward to reading more from you.

And whenever you feel like diving in, you know where to find us

evalouise2 51F

9/7/2005 5:43 pm

Wow! hi! thanks.

Thanks for all the warm wishes, the great advice, even the "get over it" stuff...

I'm getting there.

Its really wonderful how supportive you all are.

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