Too bad  

eternal1969 47M
838 posts
10/9/2005 11:30 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Too bad

Worked over the weekend on a company event. Decided to try my luck and see whether I could confirm if she was hitting on me.

Went over to her counter which was about slightly higher than waist height and not too deep in width. Teased her that she was going to make me nose bleed seeing her in her tank top. She played along with me and said that if I did I would have dated her out. As we contined our banter, she leaned over and I could see her perky breasts in a black and white frilly front clasp bra. She must be an A cupper but whew what a view. She must have definitely noticed where my eyes were channeled at but she pretended as if she didnt notice. Now I was really tempted to take her out for dinner after the event and test my luck further.

But again those stupid red bells go in my head and reminded me that it wasn't a good idea to get involved with a colleague. It sucks to have the feeling of seeing and carving out the fruit but knowing that I can never get to eat it even if it gets presented on a silver platter unless I don't intend to stay on in the company.Sigh.

Anyway later the same day another promotor asked me a favour in exchange for a dinner treat. I jokingly agreed to help her on her promise of the dinner which I figured wouldn't happen since I didn't really know her, let alone her contact number. I've seen her a couple of times before on past events but only got to know her name yesterday. Since she was also leaving the employ of her company, I thought I wouldnt be seeing her around again.

Funny thing was while helping her with her errands, she called me on my cell phone to tell me something which could have waited until my return. It seemed she got my number from one of my staff.

When I returned, she offered to buy me dinner that night. Since I had a prior engagement, I had to reluctantly turn her down. She smiled and told me to save her number that was in my cell phone and call her when I was going to claim my dinner.

God, it was almost like a dream only that the dream was all set up but the sex was not realized. Now I really have to decide if I should realize it and risk complications in my life again....... shits.

TheEighthWonder 39M

10/9/2005 2:08 pm

One of my dating rules is "don't eat where you $hit". For me the threat of a nasty breakup with a coworker isn't worth the risk...

__Huntress__ 55M/57F

10/9/2005 5:05 pm

Seems you've gotten yourself into another "stewpot" ...

georgina666 36F

10/10/2005 5:54 am

TheEighthWonder puts it nicely, Huntress7878 puts it bluntly and George of the Jungle puts it simply- it's not worth the one night shag

well sure you are the bigger fish in the pond but sometimes the planktons end up ruling the pond. for a night of sheer pleasure i'd rather you pick up someone else to save yourself from the weird moments the morning after. besides, it is really not worth stepping into the spider's web no matter how big an insect you are...

and this is besides the point, if i didn't miss you, your blog would not be the first that i'd read and include my comment. as for mailing list...ask, and you shall seek

eternal1969 47M
1634 posts
10/10/2005 8:57 am

Its a catch 22 situation which will probably define my life. The people I come into contact only these days are all work related. We get along fine and want to take it to the next level. Then after more serious consideration, it is decided that sleeping in the same place you shit isn't a good idea. So in the end, sexually I end up no better than those who never gets to meet women such irony isn't it?

dasher121 36M

10/10/2005 10:38 am

Have a friend who was with a company that had a strict no dating policy. He was always in binds like this and completely tormented by it, dont envy you there dude. But, as I like to say, "Victory rewards the bold."

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
10/11/2005 12:28 am

Oh, whats life without a few fun complications......have fun. Axl is right, victory rewards....

eternal1969 47M
1634 posts
10/15/2005 11:53 am

dasher... if the company has such strict rules how can victory EVER reward bold especially if he is out of a job

Saint... fortunately I had more than my share of reckless fun when I was 21-30 so these days I rather avoid complications... but it sucks especially since those are the more tasty option

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