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My point of view 6
My point of view 6
A guy and a girl were good friends. They were pals and enjoyed drinks together and would share with each other on things in their life.
One day they crossed the line and had sex. They had the best of sex and she sleeps in his arms for the night.
A few days later she tells him shes no longer comfortable going out with him alone and that they should refrain from communicating with each other.
Guy gets confused and asks if shes angry with him or was it something he did. She says no, shes not angry but "not now, maybe sometime later" when she can feel comfortable again.
So he gives her space. A month, 3 months, 6 months, a year.
He reads her blog, which spells of loneliness and self destruction. She tells of how her ex boyfriend who has repeatedly let her down hurt her pride by letting his friend insult her. She gets pissed with him but she still talks to him and occasionally hangs out with him. She bemoans her troubles and the lack of having someone to talk with.
Guy gets sentimental. Sends her a text message of encouragement. No reply...no matter. A couple of weeks later as he passes her place, he calls her on the handphone and sees if he could get her out for coffee. She doesnt answer the phone.
Then today as the guy surfs the net and visits her blog. He sees her miserable again. But at the bottom of her blog, a message -
"P/s: to a particular someone - If i'm not replying you means i'm not replying you. I'm sorry to say - doesn't matter wat u do, it's not going to change anything. Not now."
And what does it mean to me?
I really do not understand women...
2/25/2006 5:52 pm
That's why opposite attracts. |
Imagine... if he and she slept together, then it became a routine, probably he might not have treasured her so much. Perhaps the sexual satisfaction could have decelerate over time and one day, they might just find themselves becoming strangers. That's Life!
Sometimes we must learn to let go. I know it's easier said than done coz I myself is still having problem doing so.
Cheers & Gd Luck to us Both!
2/26/2006 1:06 am
She is not strange. Just a girl who could not handle her feelings. The mistake was that they had crossed the line. The girl was not prepared afterall to have sex with the boy. It was a huge mistake but it could not be undone anymore. So what could she do but to deny him. Shut him off forever, out of her life and carry on with hers, miserably. |
Thats why, always think before you leap. No regrets. Life is too short...
3/3/2006 4:08 am
Well guys as you may have noticed, its still a sore point to me. God if I knew it was going to end like this I would have said no to the sex.|