Men are assholes  

eternal1969 47M
838 posts
8/15/2005 5:52 am

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Men are assholes

Its sad when you sit on your head all day

Went to work early today and forgot to carry along my personal handphone. When I got back, I saw a message from someone I got to know in AdultFriendFinder. She was angry. Angry with some attached guy whom her girlfriend was seeing and screwing with but who had no intention to break up with his existing girlfriend. I think she was more pissed over the fact that her girlfriend is still willing to meet up with him despite this fact. And she really found him to be an asshole.

Ok so what's the real story behind it all? I have no idea and so I guess it doesn't give me any right to be judgmental or make it any business of mine. BUT the point of the guy being called an asshole got me a fixation on another point of view.

Yup, its all too common to call guys who sleep with other girls when in a relationship, assholes but why is it that women doing likewise are called sluts?

It would seem to mean that men in doing so are the devil incarnate, the deed being carried out with full intent of deceit and harm. Where else, being called a slut seems to insinuate a sensuous being who cannot help but sleep around because her fiery desires are beyond her and her actions are a result of fulfilling a need. So even by today's standards, there is still no real gender equality.

Relationships takes two hands to clap. Many men and women will cross paths in their lifetime. Emotional entanglements, sexual attraction are but part of life's complex workings. So sometimes unhappiness comes as part of being happy with someone. Sometimes we can have someone but yet not all the time. To each, we will grasp whatever form that happiness brings... some simple, some more complicated.

So why the name calling? I'm tired of hearing guys or even myself called an asshole. If they must, why not call me a slut instead in future.

ByteChaser2 52M

8/15/2005 6:20 am

Good point. Thanks for the perspective!

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
8/15/2005 6:39 am

hmmm, must admit i get pretty pissed off with that brand of "feminism" that thinks empowered means bashing men and i HATE it when my women friends send me those anti-men jokes; they are often offensive! but a lot of men do behave like real assholes and i will say so if they do! btw, in general, slut is not used in the way you have described as a positive attrribute, and normally if you wanna insult a woman (where i am, anyway) you generally say she's a bitch.

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malayboy26 37M

8/15/2005 8:40 am

bitch or not a bitch is not the question but Y this piece of shit tryin 2 to do or tryin 2 seduce this guy or vice versa for??This is not rite!!Guys/gals should learn about this!!U should call him/her a Big fat whore/bastard instead!!!

eternal1969 47M
1634 posts
8/15/2005 9:09 am

Byte - hi welcome. Nice to hear from you.

Freelove - Well, everyday I learn something new from you

malayboy - Hmmm... gotta watch that anger

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
8/16/2005 9:57 pm

What's funny is that if someone called me an asshole I would laugh about it but if the same person called me a slut I would be offended. You make alot of good points.

eternal1969 47M
1634 posts
8/17/2005 9:10 am

saintlianna - Like they always say, Men are Women are from different planets

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