I'm a Slacker  

esm428 42M
227 posts
4/12/2006 7:40 am

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4/18/2006 4:33 am

I'm a Slacker


Yeah, I should be studying. I'm about halfway through a fairly dull article I have to hand in a paper on tomorrow (But it's only a 1-2 page article review - easy, right? Famous last words...) and getting stuck.

I really want to fire up msn and chat with friends, but I know if I do that I'll be on there all day and get nothing done, so I figure what the hell, spend 10-15 minutes, update my blog, get back to work.

So I had a satisfying (albeit virtual) sexual experience last night, and am feeling a little more mellow, a little less pent-up today. It probably won't last long, but it's amazing the difference between just jerking off in the shower and when someone is there, involved and getting turned on by it. Much better if they were actually physically there, of course, but still.

Which brings me to something I've been pondering: Which is more satisfying, meaningless sex with a complete stranger (with the requisite clumsy fumbling and outright incompatibilty you risk with strangers), or less-meaningless cyber- or phone-sex with someone you care about (and no actual coitus)? If you get really really horny, would you rather go out to a bar and pick up a stranger, go home with them and fuck them and not even stay the night, or pick up the phone and call someone you know, talk dirty at each other and masturbate together?

I certainly find the latter easier, but it may be because whatever sexiness I have comes out in my attitude rather than my looks (I think, anyway). How about you all?

crazygurl2xx 56F

4/14/2006 2:30 pm

i would rather take my chances with a real body. the other is nothing but frustrating.


sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
4/17/2006 7:07 pm

My choices - "less-meaningless cyber- or phone-sex with someone you care about (and no actual coitus)" and "pick up the phone and call someone you know, talk dirty at each other and masturbate together"

Although those are without physical contacts, at least I know, click with and get turned on by the guy. That's better than having a stranger who could be some crazy psycho or doesn't know what I love and the sex would sucks


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