i have to say...  

eroticbettyboop 50F
291 posts
5/28/2006 8:52 pm

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i have to say...

i'm alittle disappointed in this but i've noticed that people have cliques on here. sometimes i feel like i've invaded there blog when i pop on and make a comment. some have been very nice but some u see them leave real nice answers to everyone who makes a comment and either they skip over u or they make a simple comment. maybe i shouldn't visit those people's blogs anymore. just like if u get on the chat room. some people very close and clique. and do not wanna talk to u at all. sometimes even getting snotty. others on chat and on the blogs have been soo sweet..this isn't meant for everyone. because i have talked to and met some great people on here. but sometimes i feel alot of coldness and indifference from some on this site. i wonder why? i think i am nice to everyone. hhmmmm..just been wondering..feeling shunned..lol

flagg134 36M
1582 posts
5/28/2006 11:08 pm

Well I have been accused of being in a clique as far as blogs. To be honest I do have a few very good friends I made here. However I am always looking for more good people to speak with.

I try to answer every comment on my blog. But i'm a little slow about it the only ones I don't answer are the people who drop in thru the backdoor and leave a one line comment.

Mostly the top bloggers do that and I consider it a tad rude is all. Usually they don't come back and read it anyway as they have made 50 responses to blogs that day.


zoopc42 47M

5/29/2006 1:17 am

funny...you should mention that

rm_Smile_My_Way 59M
1519 posts
5/29/2006 5:18 am

My experience has been on the first visit to a persons blog and leaving a message, the response might be short, but the more I visit a persons blog the longer the response will get. As they get to know you it usually will get better.

bipolybabe 54F

5/29/2006 8:04 am

Personally, I don't think it's necessary to respond to every comment that people leave in my blog. Only if their comment begs to be answered. I don't have time in life for everything I might want to do, and I prefer to visit other blogs rather than comment to every person who comments in mine.

But, welcome to Blogville! It's actually a fun place once you get used to it.

I love your main photo. What great eyes you have!


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rm_tazman6977 49M
8 posts
5/29/2006 8:52 am

Sometimes it takes time to get to know others. Some people are very friendly and open to everyone others it takes time for them to accept new people.

As for the chat rooms well thats a whole different animal sometimes.I know I am pretty much friendly to anyone that is friendly back and I never judge anyone based on what others say I find out for myself from the person. But not everyone does that some people are followers and others are leaders and then some are just who they are and dont follow or try to lead.

NickRules999 39M
9462 posts
5/29/2006 10:00 am

I never shun anyone away from my blog. I'm always ready to accept comments from anyone. All are welcome there.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

eroticbettyboop 50F

5/29/2006 10:47 am

i do realize the ones who r probably overwhelmed w/comments. i have 2 jobs and 4 kids so i know how busy can get and now i'm still moving into my new place. which has been really fun. zoopc..i acknowledge your comments..lol.theres a diff in how they do. if u can even bring humor into your comments if u can't answer huge comments to overwhelming responses. i understand. i do. i do try and read mine. i'm bad about not leaving huge responses so i know i'm guilty of that. smile my way. your cool don't worry. i can see that the people weren't the people i had noticed it happening with. it was just a few people and no one was really rude except a few times on chat when a few women made catty comments about men w/sm. dicks chasing after the big breasted sluts on there. i knew since i was on web cam and men were commenting on my lg. breasts it was directed at me. sometimes the women have gotten catty w/ me before but the guys have been cool. i have met lots of sweet people on blogs this is not directed at everyone.

eroticbettyboop 50F

5/29/2006 3:47 pm

thank u kyle!the window was to my left.i was looking out it for my boy toy! i notice all the nice,courteous people r chatting on my blog w/me!

rm_4wolfsr 57M

5/29/2006 4:31 pm

I'm probably the world's worst for popping in to blogs and failing to leave a comment. But I do agree with you that there are cliques, that develop here. But as SMW indicates, it seems the more you pop into other's blogs and comment, then they get to know you and read your stuff, too. I'm not sure if this is the first time I've posted a comment on your blog or not, so if it is.......... and if it isn't again.

goodguysneedit2 56M

5/29/2006 5:07 pm

Well Mizz Erotic... I know what you are talking about.

But...if you are a newbie to somebody's blog, they don't have a history with you yet...etc...so they can't go nuts with ya yet. That's what I tell myself anyway...lol

I love new arrivals who compliment me on my writings,ramblings,thoughts...(or whatever...lol)

The cliques?... hmmm..I have favorites and they usually regulars at my blog and visa-versa. I tried the chatroom once, felt like a turd in a punchbowl.....fuck dat shit! LOL

Yep...the amazingly popular blogs are ones you can't always expect responses on..and I don't envy those folks for all the hours they spend just being kind...lol

But..if you --m'dear Erotic--pop onto my blog.. I'll treatcha right. Promise. If you could only pop onto my porch about now, I'd treatcha even better!

T_A_B_75 41M

5/29/2006 5:16 pm

I have just started to blog and what I thought I would do instead of commenting on everyones comment I would just give them recognition in the next blog I wrote. That's the way I've been doing it since day 1.

Chatting is a different story. I've entered a few rooms and haven't been acknowledged once. I will check to see who is in the room so there is plenty of time for a response, but nothing. My experience from other chats that I have been to is as soon as you enter a room everyone welcomes you in, whether they know you or not. They don't have to keep talking to you, it's just courtesy.

I like your picture. You're very pretty.

eroticbettyboop 50F

5/29/2006 8:28 pm

well thank u 4wolfsr!! *big smile back* and thank u soo much for entering mz. erotics world! *wink* *hugz* we give lots of hugz and kisses when u r around me! good guy..i liked your mz. erotic name so i latched onto it! *kisses* well thats too bad...i like it when people go nuts on me! lmao! yea! lol! warped sense of humor! heehee! sooo mister bubbles,huh??? hhhmmm...lol! *thinking* (slaps hand! bad mz. erotic!)*sigh* wheres good guy's porch? *pout*thats a great idea tab! i do get quite a bit of hi's when i go in the ohio room. but mainly men..lol..go figure..lol! thank u tab!*big kiss* "cool glasses!" very mysterious! *wink*

zoopc42 47M

5/30/2006 5:32 am

well I was half refering to you and half refering to a post I made on blog.

I have seen some reponses directed at me and that is always appriciated but I think what I was getting at was you reap what you sow, I can't say I acknowlege every comment, I dont have that much free time either but evenatually I start to comment more on the repeats, even the 'pop-ins' I try to get to eventually, might not read it.

for a long time I was jus so depressed that I didnt feel like being witty and it got to the point I was just writing for myself, so i figured why bother. i closed it down. didn't get much of a response that encourged me to not so I left.

eventually i figured I had my time off (not that I consider it a chore) so I reopened it with some renewed vigor.

people come and go in my opinion and it seems that friendships here on the general term, don't weather more then a month. like with anything on the internet, months are decades

Ok I think I am rambling. the point was really that I was hoping you would see what I saw

I know we are not buddies or chums but felt a bit shunned myself at times in your reponses...so that was all.

ok ill shut up now

digdug41 49M

5/30/2006 5:45 am

Dont sweat it, and dont take it personal, if people get like that with you you gotta think "Man if your like that here, then I know you dont have much of a life." if you come online and act like that so its all good and as far as thre cliques thats very simple birds inna feather it happens in realtime so thats no surprise but I move around the blogs and I go where ever so i dont sweat it have fun sweety

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

playtime44uandi 52M
6545 posts
5/30/2006 5:53 pm

It can be a bit clicky here just like anywhere. But its rare that poeple have a real problem. Honestly I like the groups a lot & that can be quite clicky. But all you have to do is pay attention to there rules, & your in.
Oh & dont worry about jealous ladies & there little comments. We like you for who you are!

~We'll Leave The Light On~

rm_kneel_be4me 48M
457 posts
5/31/2006 5:09 pm

Dont let it bother you it isnt worth the stress. I go where I want and respond as I feel lead... If they dont like my responce they are welcome to remove it... If they want to respond great if they dont I dont mind. I have only been on here for a few weeks and already have several people that I visit alot because we get along... others I dont feel a connection to and I dont mind if they dont respond to my comments.

As for the chat room I understand what you mean... But you have a destinct advantage being female... If you think its rough for you try being male and breaking in. With the male to female ratio of 1000 to 1 it is brutal. I havent realy tried chat on here and I only have one room in yahoo I venture into because i like the people there and I have no problems accepting anyone into the chat room.

Lioness_girl 45F
3494 posts
6/1/2006 4:58 am

I don't get a lot of comments on my blog, but when I do I appreciate them. However, I like you have 4 kids. I also work full time and go to school, so I am very busy and don't always have time to reply to comments. I do try to read other people's blogs and leave comments there and some I have gotten to know better and they have gotten to know me too

I hope you have a nice day! Hugz


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SirMounts 102M

6/3/2006 2:14 am

Well, someone once said that 90% of the people are nice, and the other 10% would be if they knew how.
This is a very good blog, eroticbettyboop. *smiling* Thank you.

Friends4Sex13 44M

6/5/2006 9:53 am


I don't know whay anyone would ignore you or exclude you. I think you're adorable myself. I also think AdultFriendFinder has to have your age wrong because the first time I saw your pic I figured you were barely 20. I wish time would be that good to me...lol.

I do agree with you about some of the cliquishness here. I think some of that here is due to human nature. We become comfortable with what we know and tend to stick with that group and guard that group. I think it also has to do with the nature of the site. There are so many fakes and people on here just to look at nude pics, that a lot of people get tired of weeding out the good from the bad and decide to ignore everybody other than the group they already found their way into...

Just my 2 cents...

bulging_boy 49M

6/12/2006 7:02 am

I answer all comments in my posts, unless it's one that doesn't really warrant any reply from me.

Cliques are only groups of people that have become friends. In saying that, if I commented on someones blog and they replied to everyone but me?

I'd consider not going back and I would take it personally.

It's hard being immature, but apparently I make it look easy.

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