OK.. a little update from MY sexlife  

eqdogett2 40F
69 posts
9/16/2005 8:47 pm

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OK.. a little update from MY sexlife

I know I did the Anal blog a while back and now I think I have figured out the way to get over that problem. with everyone's excellent advice and through lots of talking to a friend of mine who loves anal sex, I have decided to try it again and hope that I can over come this little weakness of mine.

Hopefully, I can relax enough for it to happen and hope that with lots of lube and lots of loving touches and patience I can get over this fear of doing that again and being hurt over it.

I will let you all know very soon how well it goes and if it worked.

rm_Intent2842 72M

9/18/2005 7:25 pm

A couple of years ago, I was in a relationship with a married woman who was 20 years younger than me. She was great in bed and gave fantastic head, but would never let me go up her ass.

The day before my birthday, she rang me and told me to come around the next day as she had a "birthday treat" for me. I was able to guess what it might be so I was almost hard with anticipation when I rang her doorbell. I was completely hard when she opened the door wearing only stockings and suspender belt. She dragged me into the house, got on her knees and blew me until I shot off over her tits.

She then produced some lube, and smeared it generously on my rock hard cock. She went on all fours, I applied a little lube to her ass, and inched my way in. I was so excited that I came as my cock was going in, which made her ass really slippery.

She gasped with pain at first, but it soon turned to moans of pleasure as I pumped away in her tight, virgin asshole.

She began rubbing her clit, as I ass-fucked her for about 30 minutes. We both had huge orgasms. I shot my load in her, and pulled out to watch it come back out of her gaping hole. I really enjoyed my birthday present, and she must've too, because For another good 6 months (until she moved to Nevada), We were both addicted to ass fucking. I'd do her up the ass almost every other day. I can still remember how her little pink hole looked.

rm_bella_ 47F
4030 posts
9/18/2005 7:36 pm

You are brave, so much braver than I....I bow to you!!

rm_wildweezil 65M

9/24/2005 2:23 pm

Little food for thought... First, congrats on an open mind and reconsidering.
Make sure you don't just it to pls someone else. It should be mutual.
Two things to consider. From a physical standpoint, there is only a fine membrane separating the anal cavity from the vaginal cavity. (Hopefully) the reason that you'll learn to enjoy it is that when done sensually and respectfully, you should experience a vast amount of the same "hot spots" as you do vaginally. That's why so many women actually get off on it. Then secondly.... It's a muscle (like the vagina) which is designed to stretch but it's natural state is constricted. When a woman is and her vagina muscles are constricted, she experiences the same tearing/bleeding as can your ass. When you get horny/wet, your pussy muscles loosen up to accomodate whatever. You can 'teach' your ass to do the same thing. (privately) play with yourself a little. Got to have a good lubricant of course, but then experiment a little. Masturbate some where you're good and horny. Then try laying on your side or back in a fetal position to expose your asshole as best you can. Use your finger and slowely prod yourself...slowely. The muscle will begin to relax and expand. From there you're on your own....
Any man whom you decide to participate with has to absolutely understand this... and depending on his experience... it could be your job to teach him. Just make sure you're in control. Hopefully with your good attitude and willingness to try/learn, you'll end up learning to really enjoy it!!

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