Next Lesson : Premature Ejaculation or just too worked up!  

eqdogett2 39F
69 posts
8/18/2005 7:38 pm

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Next Lesson : Premature Ejaculation or just too worked up!

I want lots of response to this because I am (of course) not a man but have experienced this so much that I want to know how many men have actually been able to over come premature ejaculation or knows someone who has and their technique.

I know some men that have just not had it in a LONG time really don't count on this. I would probably blow a wad in my pants if I hadn't had it in a year or so. But, the men who can get it all the time and just can't seem to pull off longer than 5 minutes in the sac... I would personally think there is a problem. Hopefully it wouldn't be because I was too much of a dick tease.. LOL! A girl has to keep a man's interest till we get him in the sack.

So far, the best tactic I have been able to find is to be on top and try to regulate it as best as I can without allowing him to go too far that he can't hold it back.

How do you get a man to over come this??? This time.. I am completely lost and need some advice on this.

All men and women, please let me in on the secrets of this.. I have only found one man so far who can do the muscle trick and actually be able to orgasm and not spill his seed.

If there are men out there that can explain HOW you do this.. please do.. I have someone who really wanted me to ask this!

funkindgenrus 54M
2 posts
8/20/2005 3:54 pm

I don't know the muscle trick but I can share what works for me. I think the initial excitement can be dealt with by giving head till some of the initial sensation is gone. For me after 5 minutes of contact the excitement and sensation come into check and I am ready for the duration. A woman should be able to gauge the man's excitement better when its in her mouth. Be patient.

gladheateher31 44M  
5 posts
8/21/2005 10:46 pm

The curse of the minute man. If you feel an orgasm coming on, you have to think about something else. Sounds real romantic, eh? It's true. If you're thinking about how hot she is, how great it feels to be inside her, she's gripping you, the juices are flowing...anything along those lines and you'll pop. So think about something else, baseball, painting the house, something you do not find erotic. Another idea to try is to use slow short strokes. Timing is critical, if you wait too long you'll still pop. When you feel the muscles tightening up, pull almost all the way out and just move in and out a few inches. Do this very slowly. Take the time to look at her, talk to her. She'll think you're teasing, and she'll probably love it. If that doesn't work, then just stop all worm motion when you feel the first tingle. To keep her interested, kiss her, nuzzle her neck, run your hands up and down her sides and most of all, talk to her. Don't say something stupid like "i'm too excited". Compliment her, tell her how much you want her. Better yet, tell her what you're going to do to her. If you have premature ejaculation, try these ideas. Turn the tables to your favor. No woman wants just a few minutes. Hope this helps.

funkindgenrus 54M
2 posts
8/28/2005 10:00 pm

I would think he already knows he's a minute man. Sex is enjoyable and he would want that feeling to last if he could. Try motivating him with a reward for doing his best. I don't know how you enjoy intercourse but my woman would tell me to pound that pussy after we have enjoyed each other for awhile. I always worked harder (no pun intended)for that reward. What treat does it for him? He'll figure it out.

asijoe50 43M
12 posts
9/15/2005 8:03 pm

Timing is everything. One way to get him to last longer is to insist he wear a condom. Tell him you would like to try it.Tell him you are no longer on birth control and it's his to take care of. Tell him anything to get him to wear one. Once he is into sex and you are on your way to reaching a climax he can remove it. It will prolong the sex by not allwoing him to feel the same intense sensation that he would normally feel. As for premature ejaculation I have had it happen to me twice but both times I was performing oral sex on my wife and she let me lick her from behind. ( my favorite tur on)Most of the time my wife and I are in sinc. We climax together or she and then me. Tell your husband it is rude not to let his lady finsh first. Also if he gets out early spank his ass and make him do it again. It sounds to me like you may be married to Al Bundy.

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