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I sat my wife down this last weekend and told her I wanted to go shopping for her. I explained to her what I was going to buy, and why I like it.
I have to say, I really enjoyed shopping for lingere. It was a nice experience to see all of those frilly things, and imagine the girls working there in them =)
I spent almost 200 bucks, on a great sexy outfit, a skirt and nice blouse, plus shoes. It was a great outfit. Sexy black boustie top, with garders, and stockings. Short heels with straps, and a short black skirt. The blouse was sleeveless, and very nice.
All of it, every last bit was returned. My wife looked great in it all, but I all heard was, this is the wrong size. or This does not look good.
Anyhow, the trip was a total bust. I am not sure what to do about this. I want my wife to understand that she is sexy, but she does not seem to get it.
What do you think, is it time to seek professional help?
5/25/2005 5:02 pm
Did you take her with you so that you could look at her in the outfits that you were picking out????|
Did you let her make the choice???
Fredericks of Hollywood or Victoria's Secrets, etc.... doesn't look good on everyone, unless you wife is a 0-6..... You might need to look at some other type of lingerie that can make her look very beautiful and sexy...
It isn't always about the lacy and thrills... it can a be a silk neglige or something of the sort that can make a woman feel very special.... a candlelight dinner on a patio free from kids and interruptions can be very romantic....
My advice: Don't try so hard to make it what you think it shoud be.... let it come about naturally with a little assistance. Make sense?????
10/22/2005 10:27 pm
Okay first things first. You need to make her feel sexy without all the little outfits once she feels sexy she will want to dress up for you. You have to show her you love her in little ways everyday. Compliment her, and not just sex related comments. Hold the door for her when you go out. Get the car door for her. Start with those things and see if things don't significantly improve for you.|