Should I continue talking to her?  

rm_emilylam28 37F
61 posts
9/9/2006 8:41 am

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9/22/2006 7:31 pm

Should I continue talking to her?

I have this kinky online friend. She turns me on everytime and I liked playing with her. But the thing is, the stuffs she told me to do are way too crazy... at least for me. I'm kinda nervous about playing with her, although it really feels good, like nothing I've experienced b4. So, if you were me, should I continue? And don't tell me I should coz u wanna see more blog postings. try giving me some true opinions
Yes - play with her. do whatever she says and enjoy it
Yes - try more, and quit when u don't feel comfortable
Yes - can talk to her, but keep it casual chats
No opinion
No - try to avoid her, but entertain her if she talks to u
No - don't talk to her anymore
No - block her completely

everynormaldayus 48M/44F

9/9/2006 9:18 am

Talk to her about it, explain what you are feeling and why - Chances are you'll find your way through it and feel more comfortable with it. If you still feel uncomfortable about it, there are plenty of others out there ~Grace

Discreet_Man99 40M
11 posts
9/10/2006 7:29 am

You have to have limits, but if you want to keep exploring, you definitely should. If you continue to be uncomfortable, find someone else to play with. I'll volunteer.

oddsmartboy 34M

9/12/2006 7:42 am

Limits were always meant to be pushed; but theres only so many lines you can cross before it becomes scarey. If you talk to her about it all, Im sure she'll understnad. Sometimes people just need someone to discuss their fantasies with, even if they dont get them out on paper.

However, don't limit yourself, just stop and think, and make a list of things you MIGHT do, and work from there. Don't ever feel oblidged to do something though. Ever.

spacecadet561 59M

9/16/2006 9:28 am

As long as it's online, it can't hurt physically. It sounds like it's quite a mental turn-on, anyway.


citgethard4u 52M
160 posts
9/19/2006 11:45 am

It sounds like you still have a choice in what you do or don't do with her so as long as it still turns you on and you're into it go for it. Keep exploring in a safe forum and keep having fun!

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