elle_gant1 45F
88 posts
5/21/2005 2:34 pm

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I had the best date of my life last night

After a bad no-show experience last weekend, I was a little bit anxious about last night. We set up a date to go watch the Mets and Yankees play. It was understood that the 3 of us would be going as "friends" and that there would be no pressure to go any further than that. We met at the local White Castle (a fast food chain), and drove over to Shea Stadium.

When they approached I was a little disappointed, not in their looks (they were just as gorgeous as in their profiles), but they were both sporting full Yankee regalia. As a life-long Mets fan, this was a little disheartening, and I could see in their eyes the surprise at seeing my Mets cap and t-shirt. But what the heck, it was a beautiful evening and we were going to see a ball game.

They had procured 3 tickets down the third base line, about 15 rows in. I had never sat so close to the field. All thoughts of who we were rooting for fled my mind as we stood for the National Anthem, me standing between two of the hottest girls on AdultFriendFinder.

I always thought I was a baseball expert, but besides looks, these girls had baseball savvy. Not only did they know the players, they had an understanding of the game. They knew the manager's tendencies as far as when he would bunt, steal, hit and run, as well as which reliever would come in to pitch. It was like watching the game with my brothers, except that these gals would solicit my comments and compliment my baseball knowledge (that was something that never happened with my brothers).

Since they had supplied the tickets, I bought the hot dogs and beer. We probably ate too much, but limited ourselves to two beers. On the way home, we stopped for a couple of drinks at a local watering hole, then I drove them to their car and we hugged and kissed good-bye. Before leaving, we made plans for Sunday's game. Maybe on Sunday, the Mets will win.

O-kay, so there was no sex involved but it was the most fun I have had on a date in .... ever. Also, if sex had been looming over us the whole night, I probably wouldn't have had half the fun I did. Sex will probably come along, naturally, when it feels right, but even if it doesn't *begging god that it does*, I still made a couple of friends. And for that AdultFriendFinder, thanks.

mnfun952 102M

5/22/2005 5:02 pm

Elle...that's FANTASTIC news!! I'm really happy you had so much fun and it's great to see that you weren't disappointed by the lack of sex. The sex will come later - and it will be 10 times as good because of the fun and the friendship are all building together. I wish you the absolute best and if you're so keep us posted.


purejoy4fem 46F/44F
682 posts
5/23/2005 7:55 am

elle, we totally agree with mnfun on this one. I'm sure that the girls you were out with had as much fun as you did (otherwise why would they invite you for Sunday?). And we are sure when the sex comes (and it will), it will be dynamite

elle_gant1 45F
78 posts
5/23/2005 3:32 pm

If only the Mets would win, it would have been perfect. Thanks for the encouragement mnfun and purejoy

rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
5/24/2005 8:56 am

I'm glad you had an enjoyable time. It will probably work out best that you didn't have sex and that you are developing some level of friendship. I think the sex will be much better when you are all comfortable with each other and can relax and make the most of the sexual times that you do have together. I'm glad I stopped by your blog and plan to do so again, if that's ok with you.

elle_gant1 45F
78 posts
5/24/2005 1:20 pm

4nik8, you can stop by anytime

rm_BigDnLady 43M/41F
1140 posts
5/24/2005 3:14 pm

I am waiting at the buffet for you, cum on over at anytime!!

I am glad that you had a good time and hope that your next date will be as much fun or perhaps more than the last!!!


442 posts
5/27/2005 3:46 am

i am just a boy for just a shy girl.i glad for you and for your fun time , i like you very well.

rm_Snapper6965 51M
8 posts
5/29/2005 7:37 am

Yes its a pain when you talk to those who say this and that then they realy are just full of bs! I speak from the heart and thats who Iam a very big hearted laid back, open minded guy who wants to enjoy every day to the max! The only thing I hate the most is when all men nd women judge your looks before getting to see the inside pages and learn what Im realy like and willing to do any thing to make her smile! So I will keep searching for that special woman or two who is non judgemental and doesn't worry about things to come!
TY, Snapper

Tala4u2 54M  
2961 posts
6/13/2005 10:37 pm

You have found the secret to success, IT AINT ALL ABOUT SSEX!! I have great friends on line and many who I meet offline and sex is not even involved but because of the open exposure we give of ourselves online there is no undercurrent or discomfort with the friends I have made.

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,

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