Chat rumors  

elkgrovemale 54M
6 posts
8/3/2006 6:13 pm

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8/21/2006 6:21 pm

Chat rumors

Wow this has been an interesting afternoon. A friend of mine on AdultFriendFinder told me that he had heard a rumor about me. I’ve never been one to gossip allot about anymore, so I was curious about what it could be. Here is what he said the rumor was:

The rumor said I had chatted with a lady (I like women! Lol!) and even met her and had an interlude with her. The rumor continued saying she decided not to see or chat with me anymore because I had pestered her to get her phone # and called her brother’s business many times trying to get her phone #.

Ok this rumor is not true. It made me mad to think someone was saying this about me. Now I know how women feel when someone spreads rumors about them. I thought I was too old to get up set but I did. Maybe I’m just being sensitive.

So let me talk about myself a little bit and maybe I can bring you to seeing my side and proving that the rumor isn’t true.

I am a 43 year old, Irish white male. I am divorced. I work for local government. Part of my job is helping abused women. These are women in extreme circumstances. I assisted helping them deal with their situation and getting medical care for themselves and often their children. Many of these women come from abusive households, where they have to deal with stalkers and drug addicts. I like the other employees in this department are mandatory reporters. I am very sensitive about stalking and would never pursue someone like the rumor said I did.

I have never asked for any information about a woman’s family, it’s never come up that I remember. How would I find out about someone’s brother and call them is beyond me. It seems to be a huge leap in logic to me.

I am more than willing to provide my phone records to prove this to be true, so if this person wants proof I’ll be happy to provide it.

Have I pestered women in the chat rooms? Probably yes, it’s hard to know sometime if someone isn’t interested sometime, and I have probably overused the private message function. I won’t do that anymore. Maybe that’s why some people found the rumor easy to believe.

All I can say is that the rumor is not true.

I’m not angry or resentful anymore, but I am glad I have this blog to let me vent about this issue.
I'd be happy to answer questions about this and if I have slighted this woman in any way, I certainly do apologize and encourage her to contact me and talk about this issue.

Has anyone else run into this issue about rumors on AdultFriendFinder?

rm_KarmoHunny 55F
888 posts
8/3/2006 7:15 pm

Yes, but I don't want to go there.

Hope things work out for you!


Gossip_Anyone 41F

8/5/2006 2:26 pm

it wasnt me..i promise!

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