A little advice if you are interested  

edmndcpl 43M/42F
19 posts
9/8/2006 11:28 am

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8/11/2007 2:52 pm

A little advice if you are interested

We have been doing this a while so I thought I would share some thoughts today.

First a message to all you new folks. Talk to your S.O. about what you want out of this and what you expect. When you finish with that do it again in a couple of days. Before you step out that door to meet a new person or people, talk again. Get pictures of your prospect and discuss what you want to do for that night and later on. If there is even a hint of reticence then get it out in the open before you leave the house.

This is about "jumping on the grenade" or "taking one for the team". It's not fair and it really screws with that other couple who did all of the things I just talked about before they met you. If you have reservations then discuss them before you say yes to anything. I know that I am not the best looking guy on this website. If you aren't attracted to me that's fine. My ego is not so fragile that I will curl up in a ball and cry on the floor from the rejection. I respect honesty. I crave it. Don't lie. Don't try to spare my feelings. I simply want to know the score and move on.

I know that my wife is higher on the appearance scale than I am. That is fine and I knew that when I started dating her. She is with me for a lot of reasons. I am intelligent (MENSA intelligent). I am gregarious and pretty funny. I have a soft gentle inside that only she sees. I am loyal, faithful and constantly true to my moral compass. I think those things are what she likes about me. Unfortunately, those traits doesn't translate well into sexual attraction. The reason I say these thing is to let you (prospective couple) know that I know where I stand. What you might say will not come as a surprise. I am self aware. More importantly, I am honest and I expect the same from you. Now I may scare a few people off with this but to the best of my knowledge, it's true, and more importantly, it's me.

buddhamike 105M
7006 posts
9/8/2006 1:01 pm

You should put a link to this in your profile, so prospective playmates can read it. It's really good stuff.

jwyn 42M/47F

5/29/2007 3:48 pm

We think this is a very, very, very, great post and true. We wish this site was filled with honest people like yourself. Stay sexy and always sensual.

James & Mechelle

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