First Ever  

eder0009 37M
2 posts
10/14/2005 8:05 am

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9/6/2006 7:25 pm

First Ever

This is my first blog entry ever, anywhere. I'm not the book reading, journal writing type. I'm artsy, but in more creative ways, like making pottery and painting.

I usually don't write about my feelings, wants and needs because I know that writing about them isn't going to change them.

I have been frustated alot in my sexual life with the amount and quality of sex I have had. I've had some good partners but no really great partners that I've connected on with in many levels.

This mostly comes from the fact that I'm a very shy guy. I can never get myself to approach women unless they have made it VERY clear they want me talking to them.

HOW should I fix this? Is there some sort of trick I can use? I know at the time that if I don't approach a girl, I won't be getting sex that night or anytime soon, but it doesn't seem to important at the time.

I'm just to much of a pussy?


rm_elena0528 37F
12 posts
10/31/2005 8:49 pm

I'm pretty shy myself and find it difficult to start up a conversation with a guy I'm interested in. Could be that the fear of rejection makes us not want to approach someone unless we're positive the attention would be welcomed. As for fixing it, I don't know if there is such a thing. The only advice I can suggest is to just try to strike up a conversation with someone you're interested in. Maybe it'll work out, maybe not, but at least you tried. Now, I need to convince myself to do this...


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