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Where are all the men?
Where are all the men?
D should be almost finished cleaning up the mess I left her with Back East, and should be here by the end of the week. I've got the truck completely unloaded and our rental in reasonable order, and the boys are ensconced in camp for the entire month of July. I smell play time a-cummin'!
I've been looking forward to putting up a new profile for us as a couple, and figured I should start looking at how others promote themselves.
Where are the men?
I just looked through the first 15 "couples seeking couples" profiles centered in a nearby city. I found 44 pictures of the women, 1 body shot of a man, 2 full cock shots, and perhaps another aggregate eight inches of visible cock being jammed into one of wifey's orifices. (Not very helpful, as one can't tell how much is already inside,nor whether she's enjoying it...)
Guys, D and I really want to have some fun with y'all, but what the heck does this say? Is this how we get together as couples, by barter-pimping our wives while lurking in the background?
Doesn't my wife get a chance to see the goods, too? I mean, yeah, she'll do the bi thang and we'll get a great show out of it, but let's be real about this. She's going to feel pretty cheated if she doesn't get a good fuck out of the deal, too. She can get that from me, but I think we'd just as soon stay home if that's how it's going to go, but everything written in your profile leads in the right direction. So tell me. Why is she supposed to buy a pig in a poke? What with her looks, brains and attitude, she's going to be an equal partner in this long before we ever meet, so whats the point of this little evasion?
For that matter, what about me? I really get turned on watching her get other guys off, but, judgmental as it might be, I have my standards, too. What a cosmic irony! I finally have a situation where I actually care what a guy looks like (and here, no less, where there seems no dearth of men willing to fully expose themslves...) and most of the available men turn into shrinking violets!
So what about your wife? I love the pictures, but if I put up a profile like yours, with a bunch of pictures of D and none of me, is she going to be game to show me the time of my life? Really? Because I have to tell you, if I were in that position, I'd be pretty skittish about even meeting.
So tell me, all you more experienced couples out there. What gives? This set-up doesn't make me want to come play with you. Is this just the way things work? You sell the couple by using the woman as bait, and work out the rest of the details later?
Or is this the warning sign that I think it is?
7/5/2006 1:30 am
We always treat it as the warning sign that you think it is |
And we are usually correct.