Attention from Women - Men-only Poll  

earthShiva 59M
270 posts
7/24/2006 10:27 pm

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Attention from Women - Men-only Poll

I haven't been on the prowl here in months now, and as a result, my Inbox is filled with cobwebs. I got my first wink in, like, forever!

It got me to thinking. How many winks/emails do you generate? (Vote twice if it makes sense)

I get...
6+ new, unsolicited contacts from women per week.
2+ new, unsolicited contacts from women per week.
2+ new, unsolicited contacts from women per month.
I have gotten several unsolicited contacts from women since joining AFF.
I have never gotten an unsolicited contact from a woman here.
I get at least six new, good responses to my emails per week.
I get at least two new, good responses to my emails per week.
I get at least two new, good responses to my emails per month.
I have gotten a few good responses to my emails.
I have never gotten a good response to my emails.


rm_gerson42 52M
2419 posts
7/25/2006 10:06 am

The email portion doesn't specify male or female. I have received some very interesting emails from guys.
ger - (Commenting freely and without expectation.)


earthShiva replies on 7/25/2006 10:46 am:
Agreed. Different beast from the intention of this post, given the limitations of the survey tool. Good fodder for a future blog, I'm sure!

If and when D and I put out a Couples profile, I'll be interested to see what the guy to guy communication is like.

MoonRise9 58M

7/25/2006 5:08 pm

Your poll about "responses to emails" would tell more expressed as a ratio. Good responses / emails sent. I know from talking to a woman on this site that many men who write her say they've had NO good responses to emails in 2 years of membership.


earthShiva replies on 7/25/2006 5:50 pm:
I might get there yet. I considered it, but thought I'd check absolute results first. Setting the scale will be easier after seeing these results.

Besides, none of us has dinner with a ratio, so absolute numbers do have a specific significance...

rm_antony1412 44M

7/28/2006 8:19 pm

It is sad. I take time to read the profiles to make sure they match my own but like sionfait said the women are to busy deleting the crap they get sent to ever get around to searching. It is the same down the club though. It does make me wonder why us men bother at times though. there must be an easier way to meet like minded people


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