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Just another random thought as I browse through AdultFriendFinder:
OK, I understand that all kinds of people are on this site; young (and legal, of course) to middle age to older...black, white, Asian, latino/latina and every other race there is and, yes, attractive to not so attractive.
And that's great. Variety is a good thing and everyone has different preferences for who they want to hang out with, date or just roll in the sack (or in the back seat or on the kitchen table...) with.
OK, I think everyone has probably encountered the scammer problem that's on *all* dating websites (adult or not): a fake profile is used to get your email address, which is then used to bombard you with ads for other pay porn sites.
Yep, these people are jerks, liars and a whole lot of other mean names we can all think of. However, here's what I have to wonder:
Isn't part of the problem plain old supply-and-demand? You know...the 14,375.875 to 1 man-to-woman ratio on these sites that makes some guys start to treat the women as commodities? And, isn't another part of the problem the lack of thinking on the part of some of the guys?
Seriously, I'm an average looking guy in my mid-30's. While I've been told I'm fun to get together with and I'm in reasonable shape, I'm still probably not the sexual target of an 18 to 22 year old woman who just has to "have [her] sexual thirst quenched for the first time."
You've seen these ads/profiles, right? Gorgeous, young, firm gals with that cum-hither look in thier eyes who have perfect bodies, perfect hair, perfect boobs and are posed in a sensually-lit room for their professionally snapped pics.
Don't get me wrong - I love those pics, but I'm not buying that she's so horny that she really has to have a guy of any body type who is between the ages of 25 and 106.
In fact, I'm guessing that many times, the person who posted the pic is a guy between the ages of 25 and 106. Guys, I don't want to ruin the fantasy, but those girls on the Girls Gone Wild videos aren't hunting for anyone who is at the age where you actually worry about Social Security's solvency.
Which brings me back to the supply and demand part of this.
If there weren't 30, 40 and 50 year old guys (of all body types and such...) who keep thinking "hey, I bet she'll be hot when she sees my receding hairline and I know she really wants a piece of this spare tire!" and sending emails to what common sense says is probably a fake profile, there wouldn't be much motivation for scammers to infiltrate good sites like AdultFriendFinder.
Ya know what I mean?
Oh, by the way - the receding hairline and spare tire comments were just rhetorical...
It's kind of like when you get those emails from the supposed banker in Ghana who has to secretly transfer $10,000,000 to the United States and he picked YOU!!!! Wow, what a lucky day!
If there weren't people out there falling for those emails, then we wouldn't get these things in our inbox.
Anyway, it seems like there are plenty of REAL people here as well, and I'm finding that many are VERY attractive, so I'm not going to worry about the fakes.
In fact, I issue this challenge to those who say all the ads on sex sites are real: Arrange for the young, firm, airbrushed, perfect boob-ed girls who are hot for mid-30's single dads to stop by my place and PROVE IT!!! I won't be convinced until she's naked and lying on my bed!
(hey, you can't blame a guy for holding out a smidgen of hope, despite all common sense... in the meantime, I'd love to hear from the *real* beautiful women with real bodies, real hair and real smiles in my age group who want to email, chat talk and/or hook up for mutually-enjoyable encounters.)
7/25/2006 10:32 pm
Hey, excellent ideas and writing.
Welcome to blogging, eagle.
7/26/2006 9:07 am
...not the right age...but...welcome to the blogs.|
Nothing is ever the same... when it comes to pleasures.
with a hint....the erotic senses will manifest into an abounding mess of flesh
the mind needs fulfillment of the body
if it feels good ...it is good
I've done it again...*S*
8/3/2006 10:03 am
You hit the nail on the head, basic economic theory applies to nearly every commodity imaginable (including sex).|
I hoep to hear from you again soon - this has the making of a great blog